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How can I talk to my husband about trying to make me "squirt?"
How can I talk to my husband about trying to make me "squirt" without coming across as "slutty" to him? Before meeting my husband, I dated a man for about a year that really enjoyed giving me oral **. I had never really received oral ** before dating this man and LOVED it! I would go crazy when he would "eat" me. I'd almost always **, then ** more when he'd have ** with me. A few months into our relationship, the most amazing thing happened - I SQUIRTED one night when I came for him. I had no idea what just happened. I thought maybe I lost control of my bladder and peed on him. I was so embarrassed! I talked to my older sister about it and she told me about female ** or "squirting." My boyfriend would make me ** and squirt all of the time. My husband eats me occasionally but has never made me squirt. I'd like to talk to him about it but am worried about telling him about this other man I used to have ** with that made me ** more than he does. Does anyone have any advice for me about how to discuss this with my husband?
-- Rhona
When I found out my girlfriend had a boyfriend before me, I knew she knew more about ** than me. I asked her everything. she gave me details, and even masturbated me to some of the stories. she liked it that I was so hard up for it all. she even had ** with him when I wasn't around and shared it with me. I was never allowed to sleep in her bed, I sleep on her couch even if he's not planning on being there.
this was my first girlfriend, and I learned lots about ** from her. she was great.
Not an advertisement here, but you should check out some of the ** instructional videos be Jason Julius...he has lots of good advise to be better at **...and teaches how to do the female "squirt."
I find that men in the main cannot make me **, some do and when that happens I really squirt. It's an art. The ** itself can range from as little as a half-teaspoon to several tablespoons full.
Before beginning you'll want to empty your bladder, to help ease your mind.
I find masturbation to be the easy method. Now fellas don't get upset, it maybe me. Firstly ladies, you should get comfortable, relaxed, and really turned on. Whatever helps get you there should be used, whether it's visual aids (**, erotica) or your favorite ** toy. Make things slick with your favourite water-based lube is also helpful.
Focus first on stimulating your **, as it'll help bring blood into the area and get your ** area ready for play. When you're turned on, insert your middle and ring ** a couple of inches inside your c*nt and rub your **, which feels like a small ridged area along the front of your c*nt wall,
Hope this helps
Belinda
Australia.
It's not necessary to mention your past love mate to discuss this to your husband..simply tell him this is your fantasy that's it....
Just talk to him about it, but don't make him feel like he is doing something wrong. I don't squirt when we have **, I looooove to pee, tho. I drink lots of water before we have ** and then just let it rip! We have three bedrooms, and one is for ** and me peeing. After talking it out with my hubs, we have had no problems. I pee with abandon in bed and we're both happy. It's all good if you can talk constructively.
I would recommend sitting down with your husband and telling him about how this other many could please you so much. It will probably make him hard and want to do you!