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Otherwise perfect relationship
I met the young woman I'm with almost 2 years ago when we were both newly divorced. She's originally from eastern Europe and she's very attractive and **. About nine months ago, she moved in and everything has been amazing except one issue that is causing us conflict. After my divorce, I had gotten a vasectomy and after hers, she had gotten fitted with an IUD. After she moved in, I asked her if she was going to have the IUD removed since she knew I couldn't get her pregnant. She didn't really give me a direct answer and I dropped it for a while. Some time later I brought it up again and it turned into kind of an argument. She accused me of not trusting her. I answered that I do trust her but there is only one reason I could think of that she would keep the IUD in, or else that she doesn't expect our relationship to last. She insisted she's been faithful and I was just being an insecure male and we left it at kind of a stalemate. She travels for work a lot and I know she could cheat even without the IUD, but I just don't understand why she refuses. She's sweet and affectionate and we get along great, and maybe I am being an insecure male, but it still bothers me.
I'd be a little suspicious. Sounds like she's keeping the IUD as a backup in case she needs some ** that isn't yours. It's possible that she isn't cheating, but she thinks about it, because she is ready in case she has a "need for seed."