I have given up trying to lose weight

My girlfriend always wanted me to lose weight. I tried, but never succeeded. I give up! I was made by God to be fat. Sorry! I need to find a woman who tolerates an obese guy. Are there any?

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  • Speaking from experience, a chubby guy who is your partner and friend beats a ripped but douchey dude any day, any time. For one thing, the chubby guy can always up their workout game if that's what's desired. Doucheboy won't change for anything or anyone, ever. Once again, speaking from experience.

  • First, focus on what you want and your own happiness, not what other people want. Second, you can change anything you want, just don’t listen to everyone’s damn opinion- just figure out what works for you. It’s not about size or weight, but your habits and health and how you feel.

  • Right! You want to be your best self of course, but health is more important than pants size. The two are not always the same thing.

  • My view exactly. Been struggling with exercise and skipping meals for very long just to see my belly get softer as I get older. Some of us just are meant to be fat. Slowly giving into this idea

  • I used to be in the same boat. I have been a fat since birth. 10 years ago I was 20 and over 370lbs. I ate constantly and was and I still am addicted to carbs. I had a girlfriend who was also obese but there was nothing physical between us, mainly because she wasn'tattracted to fat guys. Long story short we broke up because she wanted to lose weight while I didn't really care one way or the other. For years I went without being in a relationship and just ate and ate until I was over 500lbs. Then about 3 years ago I met a woman who turned out to be into the BHM scene and is a feeder to boot. She is attracted to big fat guys and into weight gain as a kink. We where married 2 years ago and we couldn't be happier. So don't give up. There is someone out there for everyone. You just have to look and it may take some doing. I suggest checking out some of the fat admirer websites. There are actually dating sites for people who are attracted to a fat partner, fat men included. Also if you are so inclined there is a thriving gay community for obes men. Big guys like us are either called "bears" or as in my size..."super chubs". So good luck and don't lose heart.

  • Are you still gaining weight?

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