Changing room

I've been dating this woman for a couple of months. We're both 26 and things have been mostly okay. She is gorgeous with a very high ** drive (wants it all of the time). I'm really in love with her. She also has a huge circle of friends. She recently took me to a big party at a friend's place. There were at least 45-50 people there. There was a pool out back, so my gf brought a swimsuit as did others. I didn't because I can't swim, but no biggie.

At one point my gf and one of her female friends said they were going to change into their swimsuits in one of the bedrooms. I said ok, no problem, and continued chatting with some of the guys there. We were drinking, watching sports, as well as gambling on horse racing online. Just guy stuff.

After about 40 minutes I went back out to the pool, assuming my gf was there swimming, but I didn't see her. When I walked back in I asked around, and one of the women there said she's in the bedroom. I was thinking, "Huh? How long does it take to change into a swimsuit?" Almost simultaneously my gf emerges from the bedroom with her female friend and three guys. They were all in their swimsuits and headed to the pool.

I asked my gf what took her so long to change, and she said "Nothing, we were just talking." I then asked if she changed in front of the guys and she said, "Yeah, it's no big deal. It's the only room available back there." I said I'd prefer it if she didn't show her goods to other guys, and asked if she saw the guys ** too. She looked exasperated and said, "Of course I did, they were changing too. It's a non issue, so don't make it one. It's not the first time I've seen a **."

Am I being too uptight about being upset that she changed in front of other guys? Can I really believe her that she was "talking" with her friends back there the whole time? I'm feeling a bit insecure.

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  • Now that is a woman a guy could fall in love with. Trust me, the prudish ones you don't want.

  • Na thats ** maybe if its ya they were changing so i did it really fast there was no where else ,not ya they were changing to so after seeing their ** i stuck around to talk to them for 45 min instead of be with u the person i took to the party

  • She ** them.

  • I'd be a little upset too. If she changed in front of her female friends that's one thing, but in front of other guys? It's just a male reality that they were ogling her. It's human instinct. Who knows what went down in those forty minutes, but it doesn't sound good and your gf has a lot more to explain imo.

  • Until she is not proved guilty she is innocent. Don't mess up with your mind. Stay positive

  • She should have known better than to change in front of guys. End of story. If she thinks it was okay, she's crazy.

  • I wouldn't like it if my gf did that as well. I mean most decent girls wouldn't do that and would expect you not changing in front of other girls either. Unless you two had an arrangement of consensual non monogamy. But if you think you want this girl around for a long time then I'd look dump her for someone else. But if the ** is fun and she's open minded, ** positive, then fun adventure lies ahead of you.

  • She was just **. Next time bring your shorts ya dimwit.

  • You missed out on the bone session. She sounfs like a good **. You cant give her enough.

  • Your petty insecurity is a turn off.

  • She’s just a toy so treat her like one. if you’re trying to look at her as the mother of your children and she acts like that it’s never gonna work out. you missed a. ** session for sure

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