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Wife is a feedee and I'm her feeder
I have always preferred my ladies big, but always kept it a secret. I got married to my wife who was not fat, but always desired to to be a bit bigger & was happy both times after having our kids she'd gained weight, probably around the 200lb mark, but both times she'd loose the weight, even though she loved to eat.
Then one day while shopping I saw a lady that must have 400lbs plus & I kept looking at her, when my wife said, "Do you like big women, I've noticed over the years, you looking at big ladies when we are out?". I confessed that I did infact find them attractive. That night she told me that she always struggled to watch her weight, because she loves food and would love nothing more than to not worry about it anymore, which I told her I'd always love her no matter how fat she was. She started gaining weight & within a few years she was 300lbs, I loved it.
It was our anniversary and we'd both had a bit to drink & while making love & me playing with her fat she said "I love being fat, I want to get fatter". It turned me on & the ** got wilder when she said, "I'd love you to fatten me, I want to get really fat". That turned me even more. We had a chat afterwards & she told me how she loved the extra weight she was carrying, she loved the look of all the fat & how she just kept thinking & had even had dreams of being really fat.
So I spoiled her, I'd take her to dinner, bring home treats, loved her as usual & she kept gaining weight. She hit 400, the 500lbs & was just eating more & more. She'd tease me, by wearing stretch pants only & waddle past me, her belly swaying slowly from side to side with each step, her huge rear rolling with each step & say "I'm so fat & **". She kept encouraging me to spoil her, to keep feeding her & I could resist her desires.
She's now 660lbs & gaining, she doesn't want to stop, she wants to get even fatter, she can barely get around now, she just a huge fattened goddess. Do I keep fattening her?
Your post makes you think. Firstly, yes it turned me as she got bigger & bigger. Also exactly as you descibed, the waddling, swaying belly, how her ** rolled with each step, the grunts, puffing as she lugged all that weight is very much a turn on as well as the other things you mentioned. Although at times I feel guilty that she is like that but, I haven't in any way forced her to get as fat as she is. For sure I have enabled her to fatter & she has said the same as your wife, she has however embraced how fat she is, continues to eat & is putting on even more weight, even telling me she will get even fatter & flaunts that fact.
I too think generally as feeders force feeding them & not being prepared to look after once they need lots of care. I have to admit I do want her bigger & with the things she says, watch her carrying 700+ around & watching her eating as much as she wants via my enabling, she is gaining more weight. I can't help it, it's so hot especially when she has finished eating & says. "I'm getting so nice & fat". She as said she never thought she get this fat, but is does now turn her on that she is. I also think to myself as she eats. "That's it, eat & eat & eat, get fatter".
Interesting discussion & also very hot that your wives are into the 700's. I too have enabled my wife, 26 wonderful years, to pile on an amazing amount of weight. She was weighed a few weeks back at 753.8lbs, surprisingly still mobile at that weight, she's 5'8", but has a walking machine to help keep some muscle in her legs to support her huge weight. Like you have all said, my wife is the same in that she knows fully what her size does to me & as said "she had me". She does the same things, showing me how tight her clothes are getting, stopping to rest, puffing after the waddle from the bedroom, smile "it's hard being this big & **".
But, I put it to you, that yes we have enabled them, but have you also taken into account that they have quite happily let themselves get to their huge weights deliberately? They know we love/worship them being so fat, can completely indulge themselves in their love for food & eating, eat as much as they want, have us spoil them, do everything for them, housework, washing, cooking etc, they can laze about & just eat, having us bring them whatever they desire, not judge how fat they are or how much they eat. They know full well that we won't stray because of our love for them being so fat, it's not like there are lots of women their size. Their size is the only thing that satisfies our desire & turns us on incedibly. So it's not that they are a feedee, but the fact they are in a super comfortable position, which the pro's are far better than the health & mobility issues of gaining so much weight.
Yes, very nice post. It’s an interesting dynamic. The progression of my wife just completely letting go of any desire to control her eating or calorie intake, or of stabilizing at a particular weight, did go hand in hand with my progression of spoiling her. She was about 310 when I married her 22 years ago, so then obviously able to go do shopping, run errands, work in the yard, do housework, cook, etc. We never really had a conversation about her deciding to grow to immobility. As she freely indulged her eating appetite and got bigger, and she saw my worship/desire grow, I just started to do more things for her, in and out of the house. We both knew what was happening and would happen, but we just really didn’t have to put it into words. It was a win-win - she could basically retire from normal activity so she could constantly eat, and I just little by little assumed all of the household duties as well as diligently servicing her care and feeding. Not as a textbook feeder, but just simply loving her, being turned on by her size, and wanting to meet her needs. Meeting her needs and wants met mine. So, you’re right, she knew she was in a safe and secure position to simply continue on her path as an eating and weight gaining machine. And I say that with all the love in the world. It’s also interesting your comment that there are so few women that size, 700+. I wonder if a large number of the women that size, have men like us. There are so many things they can’t do for themselves anymore - someone has to be taking care of them.
I agree. We never really discussed that I would love her to get to 753lbs, it's just happened. It has happened as you said with your wife. She knew I loved her big, always telling her I wouldn't care if she was 500lbs, I'd love her. Like your wife she let herself go & started putting on weight & I enabled her eating, the bigger she got, the more she ate. She loved the fact that as she got fatter, I did more & more around the house, getting her whatever she wanted to eat. I was exactly like you, meeting her needs, met mine & she realised that the weight she was gaining turned me on & she continued to grow bigger. At a point I was now doing everything happily as spoiling her was something I really enjoyed, that was when she didn't do a thing but eat & gain more & more weight. Fully aware of my love for her to grow bigger & bigger. She used that to her advantage, knowing she had me wrapped around her little **. She wasn't even worried to find she was 753lbs! She has just continued to eat & eat.
There would definitely be other women 700+ or even bigger that have men like us & are actually happy that they are so big.
Yes, there are other women 700+lbs with men like you. I'm one & it is amazing to read your experiences & the similarities. We've been married for 28yrs & she has gone from a chubby 280lbs up to 743lbs about 4months ago. The scenario the same as all of you, I wanted her bigger, she loved to eat, so when our children left home, she was heading heading for 400, that's when I seriously enabled her. The same as you guys, as she got fatter, I did more for her, treating her like a queen & it gave me pleasure that she was so happy & putting on weight. She was 540 when both of us a bit drunk & she had said she knew I loved her fat, but had she gotten too fat? I assured her, no & she told me she loved her lifestyle, that she couldn't stop eating, because she loved it so much & she was more than likely going to get fatter. I couldn't help but keep enabling her, I never thought I wanted her bigger than she already was, but I did want her now. It was this point that she started using her increasing weight to turn me on, tight stretch pants, tight tops, the effect of it was having on her, getting puffed walking "phew all this weight is making me unfit" she'd smile. Asking for more & more food as she rubbed her growing belly "it's taking more to satisfy me" again smiling. She was gaining more to keep me spoiling her. She is currently still mobile, but we need aid devices to help her up, it takes her an age to waddle 20+ steps to the en-suite or living room, having to stop to get her breathe back, which turns me on, seeing my enormous wife, huffing & puffing, her huge body jiggling as she puffs. Yet, I keep enabling her, she encourages me, using her weight even more to turn me on, as she continues to gain more, telling me now, I need her even fatter.