I've been seeing this lady for 2 months 18 months ago she was seeing someone else now this is none of my business I know , But she told me about it I did not ask she said it was only for a few weeks and nothing really happened between them . So I never gave it any thought it's the past nothing to do with me , Then it came up again I can't remember why then I asked her was he a local guy then just making conversation . She said no she met him on tinder he lived 25 miles away I said that's awkward then , Then she said it was ok he didn't drive so I would drive to him once sometimes twice a week and stay . I said how long did that go on for then she said 6 months , That's when I realized she had changed her story it did not bother me about her past but why lie , When I questioned her on this she said she was protecting me but to me it's a lie . Anyway it got to me thinking somebody who is willing to drive once sometimes twice a week 25 miles putting herself in a vulnerable situation shocked me it was risky . I have my thoughts on this , I would like anybody's opinions on what I've just told you please be honest no matter how brutal why she would have done this at a risk . She doesn't seem the sort to take a risk so why would she have done it the reason please reply I want to understand Thank you .