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I'm a ** person
I'm such a ** ** person, I made my friend who is already struggling with depression and who can't get out of bed in the morning, feel awful. I kept on going on about how important school is and how she should go but now she feels terrible. I feel like a ** piece of ** for doing that, which I am. It's all I can focus on I feel so guilty, I feel guilty easily.
I apologised and she said it's okay but it's not ** okay I don't know why I'm like that but I try to ** help but I just make it 10x worse. I'm always like this and I would ** kill myself because I deserve it but I have her and my little brother who I feel like I need to be there for even if I'm a ** ** person.
Most people are like that, including those who claim to be good listeners. Everyone on this planet is screaming and nobody listens until something catastrophic happens.
Do you semi-impatiently "hear her out", then brush it aside and make the conversation all about you? That's always a good one. Makes the other person feel very validated and worthwhile. >:(
I’m an advice ahole too. Had to stop doing it. When your friend ** just listen. Don’t talk. Be their cheerleader not mentor.
When she commits it'll be your fault.
Nice work...friend