Not sure what to do
I am a physically emotional person. To me, holding hands, kissing, touching, having s**, etc... is an expression of my “love language.” anyways, my wife and I have been married for about 4 years now and we hardly have s** anymore. I’m 28 years old and im thinking to myself, am I gonna have to accept this for the rest of my life and constantly beg and plea with my wife to give me s** or do I need to pull the plug and file for divorce. When we were dating, s** was always happening, all the time. After we had a child, things instantly changed. I completely understand woman need time to recover from child birth so I wasn’t asking for s** immediately after my kid was born. I hate asking for s** now because I know what the answer is going to be. It’s going to be no, 99% of the time. I know there are a lot of other men that deal with this issue. My wife wonders why I don’t ask for s** anymore. I told her it was because I hate getting rejected all the time. I’m starting to really resent my wife. She hasn’t given me a bj in 2 years.... I’m really trying to figure out if divorce shouls actually happen. Thank you all for reading this.