The urge
My wife has not been the greatest partner when it comes to **. She does not satisfy me sexually. I’m tired of it. I want a spouse that enjoys ** and intimacy as much as I do. I feel like I’m ** all the time. I desperately want a ** so bad. I haven’t had ** in 3 months and it’s killing me. I wanna be able to have ** 2-3 times a week. What is interesting is my wife is always ** when I am at work. And then at night, when I get home from work, she is tired and doesn’t want have ** or do oral. I’m kind of out options here. I feel very lonely and depressed. Even though she tells me she loves me and does everything else to try and make me happy to substitute for **, ** is the one thing that will truly make me happy.
Have you both tried to work around it? Date nights. Calling in sick & staying home playing? My partner is ** in the daytime but not at night.
Friends with benefits is the best answer, divorce is expensive and nasty.