Having a child
I am incredibly tired of people telling me to have a baby. A family friend gave birth half a year ago and since then I have been pressured to do the same.
Ignoring the fact that my boyfriend and I aren't even married yet and are not in a good enough situation to raise a child, I don't want one in the first place. I have stated this multiple times during multiple conversations, yet this idea that I should give birth keeps getting shoved down my throat.
Protip - if you pester someone constantly about something, it will make them want to do the opposite. My wish to avoid having a child keeps growing with the amount of people that tell me that 'I would be a great mom, having a child is great!'. Good for you, lovely that you'd love to have one. I wouldn't.
I would not make a good parent. I do not want a child. I will not get pregnant. I do not care, it's my body and my decision. So stop f****** forcing your s***** fantasies onto other people, it's the worst s*** you can do. That's why I turned out the way I did, but this time I'm able to say 'no' and 'f*** off'. So f*** off with this bullshit and if you want kids so bad go and adopt one.