My husband got fat, with my help

We met at the start of college, both super athletic and active. He was about 170 then, tall and lean, and I was very attracted to him! We dated through school, moved in together, got engaged, got married.

He put on a few pounds over this time (maybe about 10), but that's pretty normal. Then came a few changes all at once: we moved to the suburbs, he switched to an inactive desk job, and he injured his knee. It was like the perfect storm for weight gain.. and gain weight he did. He put on about 20 lbs in 2 months... And I was shocked at how much it turned me on. I'd never been into bigger guys, always preferring the sporty type, but there I was, wanting him bigger.

One morning he was struggling into his work pants (they were super tight on his thighs and butt now) and said something like "Wow, I've really porked up." So I said I'd noticed him get a little bigger, and that I actually found it attractive. He was super surprised by that, but happily surprised. He asked me if I'd mind him putting on a little more weight, and I said no. We had a chat that evening, and he admitted that he'd been enjoying letting himself go, having been toned his entire life. He then turned it round on me, saying he could tell that I enjoyed feeding him up. I couldn't deny!

From then on, he relaxed his diet completely, and I started indulging him more. I cooked him big meals and he'd put away huge helpings, plus dessert. After dinner he'd slump back on the couch, stuffed, and I'd rub his belly, and it nearly always turned sexual. It's like his weight gain reignited our s** life!

He's currently sitting at about 235, and I think we're going to hold it there. At one point he got up to 245, but we decided that's too big. He was out of breath all the time, and got moobs and a double chin, which neither of us liked.

May 30, 2020

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  • My husband’s growing moobs and double chin have become my favorites. He has no one to blame but himself though. He does all the cooking. He’s the one who stopped going to the gym, and who got so comfortable working from home in his sweatpants. He’s the one snacking all day. The only thing I’ve done is let his growing body know I want to f*** him more often.

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    my wife couldn't keep her hands from grazing it any chance she could get, almost like it was an accident for her gently brushing into me and it, not to mention she couldn't get enough love making in all the time. I decided to weigh myself one day and was astonished that during the past 2 years I had gained almost 90 pounds and now weighed 291 pounds. In the last year and a half my wife has been working from home and has resumed with the cooking in the house again. What shocked me was that her cooking style picked up right where mine had left off. Gone where the days of her cooking healthy for me, she would make even more food than I did and make sure to give me plenty more than her and fill my plate with again and again even before I finished the plate I was eating. She seemed to maintain her current weight but I seemed to be getting bigger and bigger and she was not complaining one bit, in fact our love making took on a whole new level accept she seemed to be the one doing most of the work these days. I have never seen her enjoy s** as much as she did now. Recently, I felt I had not become much bigger until I saw some pictures of us from last weekend, and a few of my shirts seemed to be pretty ill fitting in the photos and I looked so huge to myself. I decided to get on the scale and realized thatI have been steadily gaining and now weigh 344 pounds. I was kind of in shock but then again I should have known based on the way my wife has been increasingly feeding me and our love making is non stop she can't keep her hands off her prized Huge Fat gut hubby that she has created.

  • The accidental brushing always feels like a subtle reminder of how huge my wife has encouraged me to become. How are you accepting your rounder form? I feel like a blow up doll. It’s great when I’m with her. When I’m not though the stares are getting embarrassing.

  • Oh, to answer your question, I do feel a bit awkward sometimes in public but the funny thing is I still feel so much smaller than I actually am in my eyes. I guess in other people’s eyes I am a lot bigger than I actually envision. But the stamina with activity and or even subtle things that are quite difficult now become a little embarrassing if I really think about it. Can’t really tie shoes unless I want to pass out from my gut cutting off my breath, it’s super tough to soap many parts of my back in the shower & grabbing my u it around my big gut has become increasingly difficult especially when packed full and bloated at the end of the night. I got an embarrassing story - didn’t realize when I was grocery shopping the other day that my XXL t shirts definitely ride up exposing my lower gut. I can’t really see anymore down there but realized for a few weeks I must have been showing quite a bit of lower belly skin after seeing it in the mirror of the my bathroom the other day, time for some XXXL t-shirts I guess.

  • That’s pretty embarrassing. I can’t imagine how many people saw that tubby belly of yours hanging below your belt line. You should feel lucky someone didn’t grab it or give you a little pat.

    My embarrassment was when I was working out with my cousin and I was on a stair master and I realized in the mirror just how huge my moobs has gotten. They were bouncing up and down with each step, like a top heavy woman. I’m realizing just how unsuccessful my bulky shirts have been in keeping them under wraps.

  • I think she has converted over time to wanting me to get fatter and fatter. I believe she feels like she is the one getting me this big and she certainly seems to love what she has created with my huge gut. She not only is so much needy of love making but she clearly is more orgasmic with my weight always increasing.
    I feel a lot heavier with the recent 50 plus pounds and she has been doing most of the work in the bedroom for sometime now, but this big gut seems to satisfy her immensely and I can’t resist all the great meals with my appetite being so huge now. I never imagined I might be 400 pounds someday but them again I never thought I would be 250 pounds. The bigger I get the more she feeds me and the more she wants s**.

  • Do you press your belly weight down when you’re having s**? I’m finding that really satisfying, just letting her know what a whale she’s riding.

  • Not intentionally, I might have to try it if you say its that good for the woman. I do however sit up off of her on my knees a bit and my gut is still basically on top of her, but boy I get tired quick like this but she loves to feel the weigh too me on her so I give her this once and a while when I am not stuffed to the max during our love making, which isn't that often.

  • Oh she definitely seems to like it. That’s when she starts patting both my sides like she’s measuring just how wide I’ve become. So who makes sure that belly’s nice and stuffed, you or her?

  • I guess we both do! She keeps putting on my plate and I keep eating. When it comes to desert directly following she brings it over to the couch where we settle in for some net flix and she usually collets our desert plates fairly quickly and then sits next to me with more snacks. She has tuned both of us into eating machines and me a Fat pig.

  • Sounds like the perfect arrangement. Hope she’s appreciating the piggy she’s building.

  • One of the signs of a feeder is that she is possessive of your growing body and can't keep her hands off it - rubbing your belly, squeezing your love handles and playing with your growing moobs. As you grow, so does your appeal to her, and that leads to a very high s** drive. Not a bad place to be - as long as you are ok with getting bigger and bigger. You're already at the point where losing the weight would be extremely hard. Just sit back and enjoy. You'll be 400 pounds in no time.

  • I sometimes wonder if she is a feeder as you say or just seems to like her man fatter and doesn't want to not feed me huge portions because I seem to love them so much. She definitely is always resting her hand on my gut but then again it consumes a lot of the space when we are close together and kind of not hard to be the main focus. She also love squeezing my chest or moobs you say, I was a bit reserved at first when she tarted doing this but now kind of suck it up because she seems to like it so much and when she does this she tends to have a more dominant look in her eyes and isn't as soft and gentle as when she caresses or has her hand on my gut. I go back and forth with being bigger and then all of a sudden we are eating and all i can think about is food and directly following some attention to my over stuffed gut and then of course s**. I am sure you are right I will be 400 pounds before I can blink and as I said before years ago I would have thought 250 pounds I would have been so fat and never reached, oh well.

  • Growing moobs on a feedee can be a turn for dominant feeders. It's associated with submission. So is force feeding. Rubbing your belly or making your favorites is more for the nurturing, caring types. Has she ever ordered you to finish something or fed you during s e x ?

  • No, she has never ordered me to finish something, but I guess that is because these days she really doesn't have to I seem to finish everything in front of me. She has never fed me during s**, but then again the feeding starts from dinner and doesn't stop till we get into bed and we are both usually so stuffed and bloated getting into bed that s** is even difficult.

  • I’m reading your response and realizing just how submissive I might have become. She’ll grab my nipples and pull me closer, like they’re her steering wheel. She hasn’t made me finish a meal but to be honest she never has to.

  • Dude don’t tell me that! I’m an oinker already. I can’t get any fatter. I’m already waddling and carefully avoiding restaurant booths and losing my breath when I go up stairs.

  • If you don't want to keep getting fatter you're going to have cut down on portion size and get moving. Start with 1000 steps a day and a 1200 calorie a day diet and then increase the steps and add weight once you've built your stamina. In a month you can reset your habits to plateau your weight and then move the scale downward. Sound too difficult? Then get used to that scale ticking upwards toward 400 as you inflate with fat.

  • The steps sound easy but the calorie part does not. I also think I’m addicted to that feeling of being stuffed. Even if I go easy for a couple days, I’ll wake up one day and just shove food into my face nonstop for a couple hours until I’m patting my bloated belly.

  • Way back when my wife and I were dating she seemed to like my athletic muscular body. I have always liked heavier women and slightly on the shorter side and always encouraged her from day one to eat heartedly and workout less in hopes for her to become nice and heavy. Over the years she continued to gain some weight and then try to lose it. She always seemed to gain back with just a few more extra lbs. What I didn't realize was that our eating together and my ordering us plenty of meals and appetizers at restaurants over the years when I became less active from sports and working I began to put on a pretty nice size gut. She all of a sudden didn't seem to mind. I actually kind of liked it myself being thinner and muscular my whole life. She never talked about it, and as the years went on she started a new career after our kids were all older and off to college. I began cooking for us when we didn't go out to dinner. I made plenty of fattening comfort dishes Pastas, Lasagna, Meats, etc. always with plenty off carbs. My wife wasn't used to this style of eating but soon seemed to relish in the thought of coming home from a long day at her office desk. She really packed on a bunch of weight in 6 months. I continued to cook for us and she seemed to easily eat bigger and bigger portions and seconds along with myself. All of a sudden we were both in uncharted territory with our weight. My gut easily looked like I was18 months pregnant while my wife was fatter than she had ever been, I would say somewhere in the 200-210 pound range for her gorgeous shorter figure. I wasn't the only one that was fascinated with my huge Gut I developed,

  • I wish my wife felt the same, but my moobs and double chin only seem to make her hornier. We never talk about it but I just keep growing. She has me at 300 pounds now.

  • Same here. My belly is a rapidly expanding waterbed and she only seems to notice when we’re having s**.

  • So hot when one or both spouses get fat with the other's help, and no one is embarassed or miserable. It's sooo romantic and intimate. Just taking a lean man and turning him into a chubby big boy with his fat stomach sticking out like he's 12 months pregnant is hot! I hope I can do that to my future husband. Cheers to you both. :)

  • There seem to be a lot of women and wives like this. Early on when we were dating my wife liked me lean but over the years she has helped build this huge gut on me and she couldn’t be happier and seems to want to keep making it bigger.

  • What we’re some of the signs that her tastes were changing?

  • What did you not like about the moobs and double chin?

  • My wife likes my moobs more than any other fattening part of me. Don’t know what itis

  • You are a good Southern girl! I live in a small, I mean like 30-some families small, town and all of us women have got our men good and fat while most of us women are trying to not get fatter than "Plump." A couple of gals are down right thin. My sexy man is 290 and I just love how proud I feel of keeping him so well fed. I just LOVE his weight on me when we f***. So, yeah, you a good Southern girl.

  • My wife has recently bought a southern cookbook and I will wake up to chicken fried steak with 4 to 5 eggs on top under some biscuits smothered in gravy on a plate big enough to be considered a platter. I have a feeling she doesn’t want this belly shrinking or even staying this size but increasing a lot more.

  • Yessss to being crushed by a fat guy with a good-sized you know what! Because they shrink a little when they add a lot of weight.

  • My wife has said the same thing during missionary, that she like feeling my weight on her. Obviously missionary is getting a bit harder with my huge gut getting in the way but it seems to do the trick faster rubbing into her while I thrust even though I get tired much quicker, then She usually signal me to roll over after she has climaxed and gets on top of me and hold on around my huge gut and goes to work which I love being able to lay back and enjoy her doing all the work viewing her gorgeous face and chunky figure riding my big fat belly.

  • She sounds like a dream. It’s nice you’ve worked out a system where you can gain even more. Does she ever tease you about how much you’ve grown?

  • She seems to be in a bad mood this evening and looked over at me in disgust while I was eating my second Hagen Das pint on the couch after the massive lasagna dinner she piled several plates full for me. I am sure tomorrow she will be back to relishing her fat pig of a husband. I think she gets tired herself with me just sitting and eating all night and to fat these days to help with any cleaning. Well, she made me this big fat lazy fat ass, didn’t she?

  • I’m sure you can eat your way into a better mood for her. Who knows, maybe an occasional help cleaning would turn her on too. She can have her usual piggy with an occasional surprise.

  • Heh. Get that hubby nice and big! https://www.confessionpost.com/8908/My-wife-is-fattening-me-up

  • Me and my husband are in Tennessee, and alot of wives here take great pride in getting there husbands good and fat cause its a sign of us wives devotion and that were great cooks. I've fattened my man up to where he's a hundred pounds over weight. He loves my cooking and I love his big soft belly. My cookin has even got me putting on pounds, i gained about 15 or 20 in the same time. Were both real happy and thats what matters most.

  • That's so romantic!

  • Don't you know it, Sugar!. I'm in North Carolina and I got my Man a good 50 pound belly on him too. He's always braggin how I'm this incredible cook. It just makes me squeal with joy inside when I hear that!

  • Fattening the husband is a southern tradition: https://www.confessionpost.com/64539/my-husband-is-getting-fat

  • Does he stay the same weight now or does he go up and down?

  • He goes up and down. He's actually gone up 10 lbs since I posted this, so we're currently working to bring him back down

  • I like moobs and a double chin!!

  • You would like me then !! 5-9 #287 My 44" pants are a struggle, I'm pretty out of breath by the time they're on and zipped etc. Full head of hair, all my teeth,
    and about a C cup worth, I just let em hang. One of my old gf loved them. She loved when I would be on top, all moobs and belly jiggling away. But we would have to trade positions, as I would loose my breath from the exertion. Too fat to give her a good pounding, but she sure liked to feed me.

  • But it's hotter if you start relatively thin, like I would hope to meet you when you were just a chubby dude and then feed you like a king and watch you blow up to kingsize proportions!

  • I quite liked it initially, but as it crossed the line from chubby to noticeably fat I became less attracted

  • Were you into him eating more than usual or into him gaining weight?

  • I was into the weight gain, but I think they're linked. Seeing him eat triggers the same turn ons I get from seeing him gain.

  • Do you feel helping him gain weight has been good for your relationship?

  • Yes definitely. We were good before, but he's generally a lot more happy and relaxed, and the boosted s** life is great too!

  • What is it about the boys yes s** life when the husbands get a big belly. It seems like a common theme. There are articles all the time saying gaining weight reducing s** and Intimacy but when I first developed my gut my wife couldn’t keep her hands off of me and wanted s** all the time. She has remained even more interested the bigger my gut gets?

  • Some women find a big belly on a man to accentuate their masculinity. Some like to feel tiny compared to a behemoth partner. Others like the friction a big belly provides when they’re on top. Some just can’t resist touching and rubbing a big belly like a statue of the Buddha.

  • It’s true. The fatter I get the more my wife is grabbing and slapping my belly. It’s driving us both wild

  • That sounds fun for both of you. What did you like most about him gaining weight? Would you want him bigger?

  • Hm.. in terms of specific things that turned me on -- I loved his bigger belly and how it came over his waistband when he sat down, I loved how tight his sweatpants got around his butt and thighs, and also just the way he'd take up much more room (like in the car seat or sofa etc)

  • Hottt! is he into it in any way? does he know how turned on it make you?

  • He's not into like I am. He's a foodie and loves to eat, but doesn't get sexual gratification from getting bigger -- but he does like that I do. Yes he knows that it turns me on.

  • Oh I forgot.. would I want him bigger? Yes and no. There's always something sexy about seeing him gain, but at the same time things pop up that I don't like as much (like I mentioned). He's actually put on some weight since I posted this, and while that's been fun for me, he wants to lose it, and his happiness and health come first.

  • Do you have any desire to put on a little weight and join his relaxed body lifestyle?

  • I actually like the contrast -- him being large vs my petite frame. We're each happy with our current size.

  • Agree, I saw a couple in a store awhile ago and the guy was just HUGE, BIG stomach hanging over, and his lady had to have been about 5'3 and 110 pounds. They looked happy, so...

  • What size are you? Height and weight?

  • I'm 5 ft 7 and only 105 lbs! It's quite a contrast of sizes.

  • So how does it feel to be crushed under a rock while fuckk sessions ?

  • I love his extra heft :) His current weight doesn't get in the way too much, although I mostly go on top

  • You should so yummy i would love to see you sitting on his rocket and me jerking off to that

  • Sound* i mean sorry

  • That was interesting. You don't seem like the kind of person who would care too much about typos... LOL

  • Hah ha!

  • This feeding stuff is far lost on me. My husband puts on a few pounds now and then but we exercise together and try to keep a healthy weight. Why would you want him to be unhealthy?

  • He's not unhealthy. He's tall, so carries his weight well, and he gets bi-annual check ups at the doctor's. He's slightly overweight, but his blood levels are all fine.

  • Welcome to my world!! i've always been into feeding, maybe because I always had big men in my life. have been with my hubby for 9 yrs and over that time he's put on nearly 80 pounds! there's just something about keeping them well fed and satisfied. what does he think of your fetish? and what do friends and family think of his new size??

  • 80 pounds is a lot!

  • He doesn't really comment on it much (which is why I find myself wanting to talk on here!)

    His mom nags him now and then, just nudging him to go for walks more or asking about his health. His friends are less subtle but I rarely see them -- we were at a wedding last year and his buddy said "She must be feeding you well!", so little comments like that. But they don't bother him.

  • Did he ever talk about the new weight? Letting yourself go a little is one thing, but gaining 6o+ lbs is another.

  • Not really. He's not into it in a kinky way like me, he just likes to eat, and likes that I'm in the mood more often. The only time he brought it up was when he was pushing 250, as he was pretty overweight at that point. He just said he'd gotten too big and wanted to shed a few pounds.

  • Did you think 250 lbs. was too big?

  • From a sexual attraction point of view, no. But from a health perspective, yes. He's already quite overweight and I don't want to amplify those health risks.

  • Did you help him loose it? What was your reaction? Isn't he worried or angry that you're making him overweight?

  • I encouraged him to come for walks with me and reduced his portions and the weight came down gradually. And no, he's not worried or angry about his weight, he carries it well, but getting out of breath from simple tasks was an alarm bell for him, and me!

  • It sucks when that happens but it does happen and it's more likely to happen after age 30-35...so as cute as it is, we can't let them get massive like you see out there.

  • I’ve always been proud of my husband’s weight gain. He was 150 when we met, and after 15 years of marriage he is 330 now. But his knees are hurting and the doctor says he needs to lose 100 pounds. It is going to be really hard for him to lose that much weight with his knee issues, and I hate to see him hungry. But I also feel guilty for letting him get this big. Maybe a Keto diet will help.

  • No keto diet! He is going to be miserable. I think you will just let him continue to eat. Now that he is that big and his appetite is so big it will be virtually impossible to lose weight and keep it off. Just keep taking care of him feeding him well and he will be 400 before to long but nice and happy and enjoy what you already do about his big fat belly and size, don’t feel guilty for what is inevitable now.

  • Well, he definitely has continued to gain, even without me pushing him. Today he weighed in at 365. At this rate (gaining around 8 pounds/month), he is going to outgrow his 60 inch pants by next month. With Thanksgiving and the holidays coming up, it's possible he could be a 400 pounder by New Years. Can't say I would mind.... I fantasize about him getting so big I won't be able to get my arms around him.

  • What turns you on about the thought of not getting your arms around him? Does he know that’s your fantasy too? You should whisper it sometime. If I knew my wife wanted me that fat, I would turn into an eating machine until I achieved it. Just for her of course

  • His appetite will do all the work you need, with a little help from adoring his belly and it’s size with soft touches and caresses. How many plates of food does he usually put away at dinner? Does he enjoy eating right after dinner with snacks or deserts? How has big belly hindered or benefitted your lovemaking?

  • You sound like you have experience with gaining big boys. My husband has a big sweet tooth, so after dinner he will eat sweets until bed time. Last night he had a half a pecan pie and half a dozen cookies, plus ice cream. I love feeling his big belly on my back when we do doggy style, and I also like to be on top riding him. Occasionally it is nice to be engulfed by his fat when he is on top.

  • My wife still likes being under me, but I don’t know how much longer that can last. She practically suffocates under my chest and my belly seems to take her breath away

  • How tall and how much does he weigh again?
    What is your favorite part watching him get a huge belly or watching him eating our ig control knowing he is going to get even fatter?
    Any struggles with your man as his gut has gotten bigger?

  • My husband is 6' 2" and 365 pounds. He really enjoys his food and after he has stuffed himself and can't take another bite, he looks so content. I love to put my arms around his belly from behind, rubbing it and feeling how big and round it has gotten. His growing size represents his commitment to me, giving his body to me to fatten bigger and bigger. I feel possessive of his belly and I want it to grow and be the first thing people notice about him, thinking "his wife keeps him very well fed!". He does have more trouble getting around now that he's gotten so big. Walking more than a block or two is a struggle and he can't stay on his feet for long. Luckily, he has a desk job (accountant).

  • Do you tell him that belly is yours? The fatter I’ve gotten, the more submissive I’ve felt

  • I can't keep my hands off his belly, it keeps me in a constant state of arousal. I love to hug him around the belly and feel its size, then put my hand on the upper part and rub. It is also nice to come up behind him and put my arms around his belly. When he gets home, I encourage him to take off his shirt and get comfy so I can see his belly. Hopefully all of this gets the message across. His belly is so big already and I can feel it getter bigger from week to week. It is like he has become my pet piggy (or should I say, hog!).

  • Are you sure you’re not my wife? She makes me put on a tight white T-shirt to show off my rolls and belly then challenges me to a game of billiards just to embarrass me by seeing my fat gut hanging down.

  • Accountant tend to get nice and Fat. Be it the stress of the industry itself and always at their desk. How fat do you want him to get? Any trouble intimately with the size of his gut?

  • I don’t have a target, just want him to remain mobile and stay healthy. I love him, after all. Our love making has changed a lot as his belly has grown, but it’s still good, just different. I do a lot more of the work now.

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