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My husband got fat, with my help
We met at the start of college, both super athletic and active. He was about 170 then, tall and lean, and I was very attracted to him! We dated through school, moved in together, got engaged, got married.
He put on a few pounds over this time (maybe about 10), but that's pretty normal. Then came a few changes all at once: we moved to the suburbs, he switched to an inactive desk job, and he injured his knee. It was like the perfect storm for weight gain.. and gain weight he did. He put on about 20 lbs in 2 months... And I was shocked at how much it turned me on. I'd never been into bigger guys, always preferring the sporty type, but there I was, wanting him bigger.
One morning he was struggling into his work pants (they were super tight on his thighs and ** now) and said something like "Wow, I've really porked up." So I said I'd noticed him get a little bigger, and that I actually found it attractive. He was super surprised by that, but happily surprised. He asked me if I'd mind him putting on a little more weight, and I said no. We had a chat that evening, and he admitted that he'd been enjoying letting himself go, having been toned his entire life. He then turned it round on me, saying he could tell that I enjoyed feeding him up. I couldn't deny!
From then on, he relaxed his diet completely, and I started indulging him more. I cooked him big meals and he'd put away huge helpings, plus dessert. After dinner he'd slump back on the couch, stuffed, and I'd rub his belly, and it nearly always turned sexual. It's like his weight gain reignited our ** life!
He's currently sitting at about 235, and I think we're going to hold it there. At one point he got up to 245, but we decided that's too big. He was out of breath all the time, and got moobs and a double chin, which neither of us liked.
One of the signs of a feeder is that she is possessive of your growing body and can't keep her hands off it - rubbing your belly, squeezing your love handles and playing with your growing moobs. As you grow, so does your appeal to her, and that leads to a very high ** drive. Not a bad place to be - as long as you are ok with getting bigger and bigger. You're already at the point where losing the weight would be extremely hard. Just sit back and enjoy. You'll be 400 pounds in no time.
Dude don’t tell me that! I’m an oinker already. I can’t get any fatter. I’m already waddling and carefully avoiding restaurant booths and losing my breath when I go up stairs.
If you don't want to keep getting fatter you're going to have cut down on portion size and get moving. Start with 1000 steps a day and a 1200 calorie a day diet and then increase the steps and add weight once you've built your stamina. In a month you can reset your habits to plateau your weight and then move the scale downward. Sound too difficult? Then get used to that scale ticking upwards toward 400 as you inflate with fat.
The steps sound easy but the calorie part does not. I also think I’m addicted to that feeling of being stuffed. Even if I go easy for a couple days, I’ll wake up one day and just shove food into my face nonstop for a couple hours until I’m patting my bloated belly.
I sometimes wonder if she is a feeder as you say or just seems to like her man fatter and doesn't want to not feed me huge portions because I seem to love them so much. She definitely is always resting her hand on my gut but then again it consumes a lot of the space when we are close together and kind of not hard to be the main focus. She also love squeezing my chest or moobs you say, I was a bit reserved at first when she tarted doing this but now kind of ** it up because she seems to like it so much and when she does this she tends to have a more dominant look in her eyes and isn't as soft and gentle as when she caresses or has her hand on my gut. I go back and forth with being bigger and then all of a sudden we are eating and all i can think about is food and directly following some attention to my over stuffed gut and then of course **. I am sure you are right I will be 400 pounds before I can blink and as I said before years ago I would have thought 250 pounds I would have been so fat and never reached, oh well.
Growing moobs on a feedee can be a turn for dominant feeders. It's associated with submission. So is force feeding. Rubbing your belly or making your favorites is more for the nurturing, caring types. Has she ever ordered you to finish something or fed you during s e x ?
I’m reading your response and realizing just how submissive I might have become. She’ll grab my ** and pull me closer, like they’re her steering wheel. She hasn’t made me finish a meal but to be honest she never has to.
No, she has never ordered me to finish something, but I guess that is because these days she really doesn't have to I seem to finish everything in front of me. She has never fed me during **, but then again the feeding starts from dinner and doesn't stop till we get into bed and we are both usually so stuffed and bloated getting into bed that ** is even difficult.
My chest is now my girlfriend’s domain. She’s even more possessive of it than she is of my belly. And she built that up pretty big too!