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My husband got fat, with my help
We met at the start of college, both super athletic and active. He was about 170 then, tall and lean, and I was very attracted to him! We dated through school, moved in together, got engaged, got married.
He put on a few pounds over this time (maybe about 10), but that's pretty normal. Then came a few changes all at once: we moved to the suburbs, he switched to an inactive desk job, and he injured his knee. It was like the perfect storm for weight gain.. and gain weight he did. He put on about 20 lbs in 2 months... And I was shocked at how much it turned me on. I'd never been into bigger guys, always preferring the sporty type, but there I was, wanting him bigger.
One morning he was struggling into his work pants (they were super tight on his thighs and ** now) and said something like "Wow, I've really porked up." So I said I'd noticed him get a little bigger, and that I actually found it attractive. He was super surprised by that, but happily surprised. He asked me if I'd mind him putting on a little more weight, and I said no. We had a chat that evening, and he admitted that he'd been enjoying letting himself go, having been toned his entire life. He then turned it round on me, saying he could tell that I enjoyed feeding him up. I couldn't deny!
From then on, he relaxed his diet completely, and I started indulging him more. I cooked him big meals and he'd put away huge helpings, plus dessert. After dinner he'd slump back on the couch, stuffed, and I'd rub his belly, and it nearly always turned sexual. It's like his weight gain reignited our ** life!
He's currently sitting at about 235, and I think we're going to hold it there. At one point he got up to 245, but we decided that's too big. He was out of breath all the time, and got moobs and a double chin, which neither of us liked.
It ** when that happens but it does happen and it's more likely to happen after age 30-35...so as cute as it is, we can't let them get massive like you see out there.
I’ve always been proud of my husband’s weight gain. He was 150 when we met, and after 15 years of marriage he is 330 now. But his knees are hurting and the doctor says he needs to lose 100 pounds. It is going to be really hard for him to lose that much weight with his knee issues, and I hate to see him hungry. But I also feel guilty for letting him get this big. Maybe a Keto diet will help.
No keto diet! He is going to be miserable. I think you will just let him continue to eat. Now that he is that big and his appetite is so big it will be virtually impossible to lose weight and keep it off. Just keep taking care of him feeding him well and he will be 400 before to long but nice and happy and enjoy what you already do about his big fat belly and size, don’t feel guilty for what is inevitable now.
Well, he definitely has continued to gain, even without me pushing him. Today he weighed in at 365. At this rate (gaining around 8 pounds/month), he is going to outgrow his 60 inch pants by next month. With Thanksgiving and the holidays coming up, it's possible he could be a 400 pounder by New Years. Can't say I would mind.... I fantasize about him getting so big I won't be able to get my arms around him.
His appetite will do all the work you need, with a little help from adoring his belly and it’s size with soft touches and caresses. How many plates of food does he usually put away at dinner? Does he enjoy eating right after dinner with snacks or deserts? How has big belly hindered or benefitted your **?
What turns you on about the thought of not getting your arms around him? Does he know that’s your fantasy too? You should whisper it sometime. If I knew my wife wanted me that fat, I would turn into an eating machine until I achieved it. Just for her of course