I’m having a really hard time at home with my wife. I love her and care for her deeply. I constantly flirt and tease and hint and touch and show her emotional support. I’m a giving and kind person with a diverse personality. She NEVER initiates any kind of physical encounter. It makes me feel unwanted and unseen. I mentioned this to her and she got upset with me, and emotional, and I once again needed to support her. I tried bringing it up again and she makes it about s**, which it is, but it’s not. It’s about feeling validated as a man, as a provider, as a caretaker and as a lover.

Meanwhile my body is screaming to be touched. My heart is aching to see desire for me reflected in someone’s eyes.

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  • I was with a guy in the same situation he was into rough abusive s**. His wife hadnt touched him since they had a kid.

  • So, what did you do with him? Did you f*** him hard? Did you suck his d***? I hope you were nice to him. I really like kind and loving women like you. Tell me more.

  • All you guys in sexless marriages, listen carefully.

    1.You are NOT going to change your wife/gf/so. Don't waste your time, energy, and effort. Be nice to her and discharge your duties. Particularly if you have kids. Some women just don't have the libido and they are f*****' a*******. I've seen many and know how heartless they can be. Don't bother with them. DON'T EVER GET INTO AN ARUGMENT. IT WILL NEVER HELP.
    2. Go look for some other woman and f*** her brains out. Be super nice to her, treat her like a queen, and she will give you all the p**** you want. Trust me, there are many, many married women who are dissatisfied. Do it discreetly. Work h****** her, eat her out till she moans in ecstasy, then pound her as hard as you can. Don't lie to her. Tell her it is just about s** and nothing more.
    3. Don't talk about this to ANYONE including your close friends and family. Just shut up and enjoy. While you get one, look for others on the side. Develop a stable of willing c**** and you will never be deprived of p****. The key is to treat them extremely well, take care of their sexual needs, make them feel emotionally superior and happy.
    4. Happy f*****'. Share your stories. Tell us your intimate details anonymously. This will help others in similar situations.

  • Similar to how i feel. She always says she will think about it more, but does nothing.

  • Yup yup I have a relatively sexless marriage as well, devoid of affection. Self stimulation is getting old.

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