I hate being a stepdad and for the wrong reasons
Mid-age male here who met the love of his life. She has a daughter from when she was in high school who is a blast. The dad is in her life but completely distant. No communication whatsoever just occasional message from the daughter of events. The problem is the fact that I cannot get over the idea that she had s** with this guy and, decided to have his child. I feel like no matter where I go or, what I do, thats his girl. Its like she was a s*** of the school and im the sucker for having to be with her, sloppy seconds and, take care of her kid.
I know its completely unreasonable but, i dont know what to do or how to even feel about it. That feeling is always around and in my head. Can anyone help? I really love this girl & my family does too.