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Anyone else enabled a partner to get fat?
I married a big girl. After 5 years of marriage she became very ill and it took months of various treatments cure her. In this time she lost a lot of weight & looked terrible. So after almost loosing her & being supportive through her treatment I would do anything to help her. She had said she needed to put some weight back, she didn't like her saggy skin.
So I was doing shopping for her, cooking etc... as she got her strength back. She was putting on some weight, she was getting her strength back, but i was still doing a lot for her, I enjoyed it, she appreciated & even more in love with than ever.
I was buying snacks, stocking the pantry with anything she desired, we were now sharing the cooking. Anytime I went to the kitchen I'd ask if she wanted anything & get it. She gained more weight getting back to her original size. I kept getting whatever she wanted, she started eating more, putting on more weight. I didn't mind, I liked her big.
Well, she got bigger & bigger, I was so used to enabling her eating & she just lapped it up, only a couple of times, mentioning how big she was getting, but by the next day, she'd be back to eating & I couldn't say anything, I didn't want upset her & to be honest I liked the bigger her.
Now, she's even bigger, her last check up with her specialist she got the all clear again, but she weighs 243kg (over 500lbs). So as I've seen on shows like 600lb life, I have enabled her to become this fat & yet I am struggling to stop enabling her & she has told me she happy & doesn't care how big she gets.
Anyone been in this situation?
I've done it as well. My wife was around 200 when we met & started dating. I totally fell for her & loved spoiling her, she too loves good food. She gained weight with both pregnancies & never lost it & slowly gained more, but i wasn't spoiling her as much as we had kids to concentrate on. But when they moved out, i started spoiling her again & she loved it. She has more than doubled her weight now at 5'6" & 463lbs, although every now & then she's asked if she's gotten too big. I always give her a big hug, tell her i love her no matter how big she gets, an hour later she's eating again.
Yes, I've enabled my lovely wife to become very, very fat. (I love big girls) she's 5'4" and weighs 488 pounds as of last week. When we got married 6 years ago, she was fat, but relatively thin-about 190. She used to worry about getting fat, so she said, but never really made any serious attempts at weight loss, and would gladly eat whatever she wanted. She don't worry no more! I do all the cooking, and will make enough for 4 people. At first, it worked well, as we would have left overs the next night. Gradually, she started eating 2 servings worth. eventually, i would have my serving and she would finish the rest--all of it. Then she would have a big slice of cake and ice cream. Lately, she simply eats the 3 servings of dinner, a whole small tub of haagen daaz and about a quarter of a cake. Then she snacks on oreos all night while we watch TV. I have always made sure she has all the food she wants and buy lots of potato chips, oreos, and candy bars--her favorite things to eat during the day. Before I go to work, I go down to the corner and get her a half dozen fresh donuts for her to eat when she gets up. I make sure she doesn't have to work, and we have a cleaning lady, so she can just lie around the house and relax. She's happy and healthy, and has found a fat girlfriend that comes over and spends most days at our place visiting--and eating! I don't worry about it. Life's good. Her doctor's amazed she isn't diabetic yet (she's already 38) and says there's a good chance she will be some day unless she loses weight, but she don't seem to care, and so I don't either. Life's good. ** is great. What more can I want?
I've enabled my wife to get fat as well. She was close to 200 when we married & she always struggled to maintain her weight, dieting, loosing & gaining weight. She's a self confessed foodie. We our children left home I started pampering her, doing more around the house, buying treats, cooking more. She gained weight getting up to around 270.
She has a fat friend she worked with that my wife told me was 340, they became good friends, working in plus size clothing & would meet for coffee, lunch on their days off. They started to meet & visit more when my wife left the job at my request & she started gaining more weight. I joined them a few times & noticed her friend encouraging her to have another cake, have dessert or when I came home, I'd find a few left over pasteries or chocolate, KFC. My wifes fat friend was enabling her.
My wife got bigger & bigger, her friend was visiting more, they'd buy clothes online for my fatter wife. She became more dominate sexually towards me, flirting, hugging, more **, pushing herself on me. She continued to gain weight. Then I came home one day to find bathroom scales, my wife threw a set out many years ago. I asked her about them & she said she'd put on a lots of weight & they were both curious as too how much she weighed. She said she'd gotten really fat & was 446lbs now & she liked it & asked if she was getting too fat for me. I liked it when she was around 300 & didn't think I'd like her much bigger, but I do, I love her big round hanging belly, her huge rear, how she wobbles & jiggles & she's only 5' 6". So I told her yes. It lit her face up with joy.
That was about 2 months ago & her fat friend still visits, still brings her food, they go to lunch. She is definately enabling my wife still & it's turning me on, thinking that her fat friend is actually assisting my wife to gain even more weight & my wife isn't cutting back, she's actually eating more than ever. I can see she's going end up 500lbs or more.
How big is your wife now? Her friend still encouraging and enabling her to stuff herself and gain?