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Anyone have stories of family members fattening up?
My mom has been purposefully gorging herself for a few weeks now. Trying to impress this new guy, I guess. He keeps persuading her to eat more and more and encourages her to gain weight. He says that he loves big women with an appetite and is always buying her bigger clothes!
My mom is always eating now it seems. She was hesitant at first, but now with her now boyfriend footing the bill for everything and encouraging her to get bigger, I'm worried about her health! She started out a bit chubby; 200lbs, but the rate she's been binging, I'm afraid that she'll be over 300lbs by next year!! She won't listen to reason and is too enamored with this guy!
I'm at my wits end here. I'm hoping for people to share their own experiences with family members (dad, mom, cousins, aunt, uncles, siblings, etc) getting fat and gaining large amounts of weight. What happened in your situations? How did it happen, how much weight did they gain? How did you deal with it!?
Sorry I just saw this. I don't know that I've ever gotten over the embarrassment part. I just deal with it. I want to gain more weight. I want to be extremely obese. I want it and that is more important than what other people think of me or my body. So I accept the looks and the comments and the jokes. I feel the embarrassment and the shame that comes from being taught my body is bad. It is fat and flabby and cumbersome to move. I love swimming and whenever I go to the pool there is always a moment just before I take off my shirt where it hits me. All these people are going to see what I've done to myself. They're going to see the belly hanging over my shorts, the almost female looking **, the fresh stretchmarks that prove I've been actively getting fatter. All that I have been secretly working for is on full display for everyone to see and judge and I feel all of it. I just want to be fatter more than I want to avoid that feeling. Also, it can be pretty hot to think about after the initial feeling passes. I actually love knowing that everyone can see what a fat greedy pig I am.
The most important way my partner supports me is by just accepting my desire to gain and the changes in my body as I've become obese. She doesn't judge me for it. She also teases me and plays with my fat and she keeps the house stocked with all the high calorie supplies I need to keep growing.