He's left his wife but I'm married
I am a married woman with a family. I admit i have had my own issues with depression and self esteem. Even though i have a loving and supportive family I've done things to push them away. About 5 yrs ago I met a guy at the gym who I began training with. We became friends. He was married and has a family. I found out he was in a loveless marriage and before long we started having an affair. It seemed as we were both married with families of our own then we were satisfying a sexual need without making things to complicated.
This last year has been hard for everyone so i have not seen this person as much. I have just found out he has left his wife though. I'm not sure what to do. I enjoy being with him and our love life is amazing and a release for me but should I take a leap and be with him permanently. I don't know if him being single now will change things. I love my family to and struggle with the thought of breaking them up. I know having an affair was wrong but whilst we were both married it seemed less complicated.