Should i

Should I keep talking to someone that |
recently reconnected with since high school
about a week ago, or should I stop? they told
me they want to see where it goes, but also
told me that they wonder if it's loneliness
and isolation due to being single and
because of the pandemic that has them
drawn to me, they told me that they question
themselves about that quite frequently..but
on one hand they did invite me out for coffee
whenever we both have the time.. or we could walk my dog together (following the cdc guidelines) I've asked
them if things get better do they feel that the
novelty of me would have worn off and they
said that they don't think so as long as we
come to understand one another and they
would like for us to explore some hobbies
together. I'm soo confused. is this pandemic loneliness and i will be dropped shortly after things improve or something real?

Jan 5

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  • I don't think there's any way to answer that in advance with any certainty. The only way to know is to wade out into it and see how it goes.
    If you decide to try that out, make it clear to this person --- or make it as clear as you possibly can --- that no commitments are being formed or expected upfront. The two of you will just be hanging out; you're not building or rebuilding a relationship and each of you are free to pursue any separate relationships as you see fit. Don't allow yourself to be backed into a corner without your knowingly and intentionally going there voluntarily. NOBODY PUTS BABY IN A CORNER!!!!!

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