Big flaccid **

So my ** is 6 in soft and I also have big **. My wife gets ** off when I wear certain pants, like form fitting grey track pants which I paid 130 bucks for. And yet she has huge ** which she has no issue showing off in form fitting tops. Is this a double standard and should I wear less form fitting pants to make her happy? I honestly find her reaction confusing, because I have no issue with the way she dresses. Thanks.