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My husband is gaining weight and I’m into it!
My husband used to be an athlete in high school. Football and track, basketball as a hobby. Very talented! When we got together nearly 7 years ago he was 155 - 160 lbs and a little over 6 ft tall. Very lean and toned.
I was always into toned or muscular bodies, until recently…
So, he is now 186 lbs. Over the years from his job he gained some muscle. It’s a laborious job! He was 167lbs until I got pregnant and went up to 170-173, and now that our baby is nearly a year old he is 186 as of a couple weeks ago…!
His v-line is basically gone unless he ** in, his belly is getting soft and round, and he’s getting the start of love handles. I never was into a dad bod until NOW. I always find my hand lingering to touch his belly every chance I get. I find that I’m enjoying ** more than ever, which it’s always been phenomenal, but it is insanely amazing lately and I want it more and more! I call him “big boy” and say things like “I want your big ** body on me baby, I love every inch of your ** body” too. I also enjoy cuddling him with my hand on his stomach and I caress it with my thumb until I fall asleep, and he doesn’t move my hand or say anything.
A few days a go, he said he was getting fat and sighed, and I brought it up that night. I told him “you know how you said you’re getting fat and don’t like it?” He said “yeah”, I said “well, I kind of do”, and then I put my hand on his belly. He didn’t say anything but let me snuggle close with my hand there and has let me every night since, and when I call him “big boy” or tell him how ** he is, he seems to go harder in bed and seems more excited almost? Maybe because I’m even more passionate in bed, more than ever? I don’t know…
He has always had a big appetite and used to have a fast metabolism that has slowed down, and he still eats the same as he did before it seems, or maybe even a little more. I don’t tell him no, and I don’t nag him about eating this or that. He eats what he wants, and he drinks what he wants. He works hard and deserves to indulge if he chooses.
I’m extremely turned on by the curvature of his belly and the start of his love handles and such. It’s odd to me that I never liked it until now, but my goodness is he HOTTTT!
He’s gone up one pant size and can barely get his current pants that are the size up buttoned and has to ** in real hard. He also has gone up a shirt size. Since I’ve confessed I like his new body and have shown it with actions, he will pull his shirt up sometimes, just randomly to be silly and drums on his belly and makes it jiggle. He also no longer looks in the mirror to examine himself closely and pinches his stomach or anything. Maybe he’s gained confidence? I also cook amazing homemade meals and I bake goodies 1-2 times a week. The past few days since I confessed to liking his body he doesn’t say anything about “I shouldn’t be eating this”, he just eats it and enjoys, and if dinner is taking too long he eats something small or snacks a little until it’s ready. He also apparently brags to his work buddies about my cooking and such, and it honestly makes me feel good and I blushed haha!!
No matter what size he is, I love him because he is the one for me. I just want him to be happy and enjoy life, and if indulging in foods he loves and having a wife who doesn’t mind and even likes the extra pounds is what makes him content, then hey, I’m all for it! Whatever he decides! If he came to me tomorrow and said he wants to lose weight I would help him, though I would miss his dad bod. I just love him for him. Skinny, lean, muscly, chubby, fat… It doesn’t matter to me!
Has he kept gaining weight? How much did he eat for Thanksgiving? What's his weight up to now?
Has he kept gaining weight? What does he weigh now?
How much does he weigh now?
OP here, this is in addition to the update:
He’s been doing this for the past few weeks - I even playfully poke his sides and belly and I notice my ** sinks in a bit and he just squirms and smiles at me. I’m thinking he has realized that he can let go, that he can eat and drink whatever he wants and can enjoy himself and get excellent homemade meals, large food orders of anything he desires, and have his beers and all without a nagging wife getting onto him, and that he will also get amazing love making too. I tell him every time how ** he is to me, how he’s so hot and that I “crave” the feel of his body and think he’s never looked better. I REALLY love his newfound confidence and how he’s looking, especially when I see him jiggle when I’m on top. Now I keep wondering about how big he may get? The extra cushion feels amazing in every way and I love how my arms sink into him when we hug, and I wonder how a bigger belly will feel, and how it would feel if it were big enough for me to hold it with my hands on the sides and jiggle it.
I never thought I was into this body type until he gained some weight and continued to!
Note: obviously if he develops a health problem or ever says he wants to lose weight I’ll support him, but it seems he LIKES being big, and I can’t help but to let him know I like it too…!
OP here; he almost 220 now and when he’s not working or playing with our little one he’s being lazy watch TV or playing games and just eats and eats and snacks and then “sneaks” snacks from the kitchen.
He ate 2 homemade chicken bacon ranch cheese burgers, 1 medium side, and extra strips of bacon on the side for lunch, snuck a snack in, AND then had 2 salmon fillets and a good sized bowl of pasta washed down with a liter of fizzy pop, a glass of tea, some ice water, and 2 pastries for dessert. Then complained he was needing a snack when we laid down for bed, and asked for some oranges, so I brought 4 and he ate them and said he was still hungry, but would wait to get some breakfast before work.
He’s got slight moobs, his sides are protruding and soft, he has slight stretch marks showing up on his love handles, his belly protrudes and jiggles when he walks and slightly goes over his waistband, he has some small fat rolls on his sides, too. None of his pants / trousers except for the two pairs he has sized up fit, and he is slowly starting to spill out of those too, and wears them under his belly. He has a slight double chin forming and covers it with a short beard as well. He also no longer complains if I get fast food for a meal, he just eats a large portion and tells me he needs a snack too. He likes it when I cuddle and keep my hand on his belly or sides, and be groans and moans the loudest he ever has when I squeeze them when we’re intimate and when I call him my big chunky man. He loves it when I tell him to put his weight into it and doesn’t mention exercise anymore or anything (his job is physical and he used to work out on top of it) and he sits down with his athletic shorts rolled down and his belly out and will eat and drink that way and play and drink his beers sitting like that and drums on his belly and rubs it.
What's his weight now? You still keeping him well fed?
OP here, and YES indeed! He now wants a dessert almost every night with a glass of milk and asks for it. He also has been bringing snacks and sweet treats to work himself to add to the meals I pack him or the ones he buys. If he buys his own meals at work they’re large meals and he either hardly finishes his dinner or can’t finish it. I still caress his belly every time I kiss him.
I’ve noticed his chest seems a little softened and his sides a slight bit squishier, with his belly now going over his trousers a bit when he sits. He’s also starting to get a bit of a double chin!
Some of his shirts no longer fit and I said “we could just keep them”, and he responds with “they can be yours if you want to keep them; I’m only getting larger…” and if he says he’s fat in a negative way, I remind him of how ** he is to me and that I love him regardless of his weight or size and he gobbles it up. No pun intended hehe! I even asked for cuddles and if I could snuggle with his belly as we watched a film because he’s warm and cuddly. He said “it’s because I’m getting fat,” and I said “you’re just really nice to snuggle with and I love it, and you”. He let me, and I fell asleep with my arms around him, head on his belly - it was so soft and warm and cozy. How could I not fall asleep?
I would guess him to be 220 now, though he still says 190 if anyone brings up their weight and he is a part of the conversation. I know it’s slowly climbing up too, because desserts and milk after dinner almost every night and drinking beer 2-3 days a week and at excess one of those days and having big hearty meals in general with only a physical job for exercise is going to catch up to you. Also, the faint stretch marks that are slowly showing up on his sides. IF he were to ever want to lose the weight and was determined and all, I would support him. But he seems for the most part content or at peace with his size, and growth. Only time I doubt he is, is when he outgrows something.
OP here, and I let him know just how much I adore his body the other day. I told him how he’s never been sexier, and when he said he doesn’t know how to feel about his body like this, I told him…”Every inch and ounce of your thick, delicious, scrumptious body is sexier than the last. I love the way you look and feel now, and you feel one hundred times better in bed, big boy.” - he was insanely turned on by that and drank beer while we were intimate, after having several beers and some wine. I told him during how ** his body was in explicit detail, and told him just how much I love his belly. When I squeezed his sides and belly his face was red and he grinned, and he was visibly on cloud nine! When I told him, in doggy and missionary, to go harder and to use his girth and put his weight into it and told him “show me how large and in-charge big men do it.” He went the hardest he ever has and was so worn out afterwards!!
He has polished off every plate since, asks for seconds on fizzy drinks and likes to have milk with his pastries and sweets a lot of the time. He also grumbled and complained about me getting fruits as snacks until he saw, with delight, that I got chips, meat sticks, and LOTS of pastries and said “Thank goodness…!” He has always had a sweet tooth, but used to have discipline and could reluctantly say no and have only a moderate amount of sweets in his diet and could opt for berries instead. Now? On weekends and occasional weekdays he will have a few berries along with a massive breakfast plate (man eats 2 servings of meat, 4 or 5 cheesy eggs that are cooked in butter per request, and coated in ketchup with pancakes), sigh, wants a large glass of milk after a cup or two of coffee (that now cannot be bitter and is more of a latté) and will grab a snack cake or extra pancake to indulge in. Then complains he’s “so full”, but goes to eat some snacks a couple hours later and will whine around 5 in the evening about dinner. And eats a lot then drinks beer.
He’s definitely softening up still, and his belly hangs over his trousers when he sits and has some deep rolls and a tiny bit of cellulite, his chest is softening with moobs about to start cropping up. His belly is soft and rounding out a bit, heavier at the bottom, and it jiggles somewhat when he walks. He used to be concerned about sweets and indulgence and he complained about picking up fizzy pop yesterday, but yet picked it up and some pastries and he drank 24 oz of it like it was nothing and had a massive bowl of food for dinner, and a large glass of milk and 3 small pastries for dessert, and then a snack! He will call himself a pig and does so in a joking tone and rubs and pats his belly playfully. He also rests his hands on his belly and pulls his shirts up or takes them off a lot. I always assure him he’s **.
He only seems truly satisfied with his day if he’s had dessert and or a snack after dinner / before bed. He also smirks and smiles when I touch his belly when I kiss him, and when I cuddle him my hand is on his belly. I can’t help but to squeeze it during intimate times too and to rub it. It’s so soft and nice to touch!! I love how I can grab his love handles and his belly and it jiggles a bit for me. He’s more cushiony and soft and it’s **!
He’s got to be about 210 lbs now, or a little more, though he insists he’s 190. He got that number a few months ago before the battery in our scale went dead and he hasn’t gotten a new one.
Is it wrong for me to be enjoying his growing girth this much? He doesn’t seem to truly mind it and the attention he gets…!!
Edit: 210-220 if I had to accurately guess
Do you plan on keeping fattening him up?
I’m letting his larger appetite and indulgence do it’s work; he’s doing it himself! He eats and drinks many things that he enjoys and in good quantity, and he doesn’t ever say “I shouldn’t be eating this” anymore, he just goes for it 🤷♀️ He will enjoy a big dinner, have dessert, and then have some beer with no issue, whereas he used to only have a medium or large dinner and either dessert or beer.
He usually eats and drinks 2,500-5,000 calories a day. I only know this because I used to suffer from a couple EDs and I compulsively check calories in food content.
Whatever he wants, he gets it though! I treat him like a KING!
How big is he now?
He claims 190-195 but I think 200
Have you gotten him over 200lbs yet?
He says he’s 190 but looks 200
Edit to add: 190-195 he gave a range
He looks 200 or a little more now. When he sits his belly goes over the waist band of his pants! He has to wear his pants that button and or zip low, and you can see belly curvature under all of his shirts.
That is so hot! It takes a surplus of 3500 cal to gain one pound. If he gets 6000 calories on weekend days, he could be gaining 2 pounds a week right there. Love the beer chug too! Did something similar with my wife, I loved watching her eat directly from a pint of ice cream so I challenged her to see what lasted longer - her or the ice cream. First few times ended quickly, but eventually worked out way up to a quart!
How’s piggy looking after the holidays?
He’s gotten just a little more fluffy and I’m loving it! He actually brought it up the other day. He said he thinks he’s gained due to stress maybe, and I said I like it, he said “you only like me because I’m getting fat, huh?!” I said “you’re just so much more cozy and nice to cuddle with and it’s nice to touch and grab!” He’s been shirtless around me more than usual since!
He seems to get off more than usual on me calling him “big boy” and telling him how much I love his “large, thick, big, ** body”.
He’s seeming to embrace his body, chub and all! I’m a happy wifey! 🥴🤤🥰
I’ll bet there are more woman into this than we realise. So many men get fat after marriage. Coincidence, I think not!
Dude, right???
R u doing this to him?
No, absolutely not! I’m cooking and baking like usual, (like I have been for 7 years) he’s just been indulging more and enjoying life more I guess? He’s gained weight and I notice I love it so I don’t tell him no or discourage him. He eats what he wants when he wants it and he drinks whatever he feels like. I would support him if he wanted to lose weight, but he seems happier and happier and more comfortable and confident in himself every day, and he even likes it when I give his chub some squeezes in the bedroom. He also likes being called “big boy” and being told he’s “a **, big, large and in charge man” as well.
Has he gained more?
I believe so! He casually mentioned he’s 186 lbs the other day when he was told he isn’t all that big when weight and size happened to come up in conversation somehow (I’m assuming he hasn’t weighed himself in a couple months). His work trousers / pants are now so tight he had to ** in super hard and was red faced as he buttoned and zipped them and he had a nice doughy belly over the top and some love handles this morning. I would estimate he’s around 190 or a little more now because his Medium shirts seem even smaller and shorter on him, and the Large shirts seem to fit much better and I can see the shape of his belly when he wears them.