I now get spanked by my wife

My wife is a quiet lady, we have been married a year now. Well, we got into spanking a little bit and I told her how once I lost a bet and was spanked for it.

She decided to give it a try and spanked me, and at first hated the idea of hurting me.

But she got more and more ok with the idea of spanking, so much that she got a paddle in the mail with holes. Now, whenever she is in the mood, she order me over the bed in my small "man pantys" as she calls them.

Well, last month I made a big purchase for an event without asking her- I let her know about it I just didn't make it a couples decision. The next day she had me over the bed, and spanked me with such force, I could tell she meant each swat. I fell on my stomach after awhile and she kept paddling me, laughing at it all, and then pulled down my underwear and used her hand, which she never does. It was the most humiliating moment of my life, because it felt like I was being disciplined, like I deserved it.

Nov 6

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