I want to be spanked

I have frequent cravings to be spanked. I have had this urge since I was a child. My mom used to spank me and although I hated it, sometimes I had this weird feeling that I wanted it. Sometimes I would do bad things so that she would. As I got older, I liked to see movies that had spanking scenes or books that had whippings in them. I never told anyone.

Now I'm an adult and the urge has not gone away. I write spanking stories and watch videos of women being paddled. It makes me throb with jealousy and need. On the outside I seem perfectly normal, very boring and conservative actually. No one who knows me suspects that I have these weird fantasies. There is just something in me that craves punishment and it won't go away.

I just really want to meet someone who is man enough to sweep me off my feet ---- and bend me over for a good paddling. I want to be spanked to tears. I want to feel my ass grow hotter and hotter until it gets too hot for me to sit down. I don't want to play silly games with chains and gags and things like that. I just want to be made to bend over for the longest paddling of my life.



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  • I am a 62 yo male. I have kept this fetish hidden to my family and friends for years. I have asked 100’s to please spank me. I absolutely need to be paddle spanked over the knee ASAP. No one will do it. They laugh at me, call me gay.
    Please if thee is anyone out there reading this please contact me by text. 14013025859 I know they say not to do this but I am desperate

  • From your area code I see you are in Rhode Island. were I closer we could be a match. I am male and 70 years old and I too am NOT gay.

  • I will give you a good spanking. ware you live. Indiana here

  • Nice chat here people, Spanking fetishist from Edinburgh Scotland here:)

  • I’m from Kent want t on chat guy from Scotland?

  • It is funny that you feel that way when my wife was around she had a bad first marage so she wanted me to do it she was the love of my life but wanted a spanking as she felt bad. I would tell her that she was a good person and I loved her as she was. It was something that she wanted and needed but the s** and love we had will always be missed spanking with out love is just pain and no caring I DO HOPE YOU FIND THAT

  • I would like to be spanked. I would like to go over the knee, and given a firm, hand spanking well past the tear stage. Anyone?

  • Where are you located?

  • Sorry, in the Tucson, Arizona area.

  • Too bad you're not in Kansas City.

  • As a boy i still wet my pants until I was 12. I was spanked bare bottom by mother (and in front of others) or by father in the basement. I figured being naughty went with punishment spankings. At 52 I have a need for punishment.
    So i act like a naughty boy and wet my pants in front of others. Many people have known what to do with a pant wetting boy. Bare bottom with a belt, strap, paddle. I like wetting my pants.

  • I’m in the exact same boat. Any man in Tallahassee who wants to teach a girl a lesson?

  • Well Michigan Missy,
    Mature gent (60) here that would be happy to provide the maternal, bare bottom, electric spanking you fantasize about, but without any romantic entanglements. We will discuss accountability, and your areas which can use improvement, and how a red hot bottom will help you think twice about them in the future. Simple, straightforward, and sustainable

  • At 60 I want to be spanked and I am spanked often. As I child I was spanked for being naughty. I still like to do very naughty things and get a punishment spanking. No nonsense, bar bottom with a paddle a strap a belt. Teach me a lesson. 500 swats so I can't sit down. I its very naughty when some else finds out or watches me get spanked. I have been spanked by parents, aunts, sister, teacher, girlfriend, ex wife, ex mother in law and strangers. One man takes me down to his woodshed and gives me the strappings I deserve. I do very naughty things to get that strapping.

  • Where are you? I am 68, and have been spanking young ladies since I was 17.

    Please write back. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE TEARS.

  • I, too am looking for ladies 18-40, to accept my continuous spankings, plus other punishments. Any ladies out there brave enough to be spanked the 1st time we meet?

  • Michigan


  • I want to spank someone who want to be spanked; the caveat being that once I start the spankee begins to realize that this is being taken to a level that they did not anticipate. Suddenly, the realization that their buttocks are going to be paddled, lashed, whipped, slapped, and spanked to a painful finish is what I will enjoy the most. As they beg for it to stop, the strap will wail and the crying will not be in vain.

  • Can you get in contact with me

  • Why don't you just ask for it?
    I can always ask my mom or my dad to spank me.
    They are my parents and they wouldn't refuse to do it.
    So I am pretty okay with the idea to take off my panties and to lay over mom's or dad's lap for ... you knew what.

  • I would spank you

  • Do I go to u or do u come to me?

  • I will indeed make you stand before me. Order you to take your pants down to your ankles followed by your panties. Standing there bare bottom in complete humiliation and feeling like a naughty little girl. Waiting in anticipation and ultimate intrepredation for the licking of a lifetime over my knee. You will cry and the licking will continue to the point of a burning Apple red behind. This will be a lesson to never be forgotton.
    Contact me at abbiecoco2017@gmail.com

  • I want to be spanked

  • I want to be otk bare ass hand spanked

  • Can I have a spanking to

  • I totally understand this. My big obsession is with school-type paddles. I have one, but no one to use it on me, or have me use it on them (I like both roles). I wasn't paddled anymore after grade school, but the ever-present craving was already born. I am in my forties, and I dream of finding someone who would set up a standing appointment with me, for paddling. I also watch those videos, and I envy both parties.

  • Where are you l would give and or do anything to be barebottomed spanked OTK just can’t Find anyone to do it. I would be glad to return the favor as well plus anything else you may require.

  • I'm in just tell me where and when?

  • Sounds great to me

  • Mmm that sounds so good I like watching women being spanked to am I man that is 50 and when I see them it gets me so hard that I have to do something I have spanked afew women and love when there ass turns red if you would like to get ahiold of me leave a com thanks parttime,

  • If you still looking to give and receive a spanking let me know helping hand

  • Can you email me if I send you an address?

  • Yes if you are a female

  • I will spank you you will also spank me...

  • Can you spank me

  • I want to be spanked I really do want someone to spanked

  • I want someone to spank me as har as a rock please do I need to spankedd

  • If your a woman looking for help by a man glad to assist aim to please. mr helper

  • Please

  • Where can we meet

  • I used to get into trouble , on purpose, to get spanked. Did this into my teens. Still have this desire, over 60 now. F\ m

  • I love to spank

  • I just Love to be Spanked AS HARD AS CAN BE

  • I want to be spaanked as hard as a rock

  • Where are you

  • I want to feel hard love on mybare butt

  • Hi are you a female cause I love to spank women over my knee it turns me on so much, replay with a tsb

  • I can give you hard spanking

  • Oh yea Lets get started

  • Me 2

  • Love to get one

  • Can we meet where do you live

  • I understand you and your desires. I hope you find a spanking husband
    or lover - whichever you prefer, one who bares your bottom and spanks
    you with your own hairbrush until you can't sit down - and then takes good
    care of you afterwards.

  • Im a 53 yr old man and would love another man to spank me to tears

  • Get ahold of me

  • Where do u live?

  • Not now

  • I am a little older and would like to be spanked much more often. I have been spanked by both men and women. I do naughty thinks to get spanked. Serious bare bottom spankings with paddle, strap, belt, cane. My last spanking 2 weeks ago was a long time fantasy. A man took me out to his wood shed and strapped me until I could not sit down.....its 2 weeks later and I still cant sit down. Sore as I am......I deserve to be spanked again right now.

  • I am a widowed now. Was submissive to my wife. Yes a cuckold, chastity locked, panty wearing sissy. Sometimes I was just a naughty little boy. I enter the kitchen and stand in front of my wife and wet my pants. Enjoying myself as I soaked my pants and ran down my legs to make a puddle on the floor. I would have course have to pull down my pants and panties and bend over the counter. I then get the shameful, deserved severe bare bottom paddling meant to teach me a lesson. WE visited my wifes mother one day. I decided it was time to wet my pants. The spanking I got was from mother inlaw who gave ne a belt strapping. It was 500 swats. Corner time and 200 more swats.

  • Mmm am a man that loves to spank women but its hard to find a lot of women that likes it but it is woderfull to find one that likes it,

  • I would love to spank you

  • Goodness that sounds incredible wish I could have been part of that fantasy x

  • I have had those fantasies too, but not sure that I want to go through with it. Im kind of scared. Im 79yo and would sure like to try it.

  • Well you have to be brave and take the bull by the horns....at 79 time is scarce so if you are still available lets get together and entertain each other.

  • I feel the same way

  • I can relate to this a little. When I was at school we used to get the cane. It was painful and I used to think to my self you stupid ass why did you do whatever it was that I had been caught doing. Then I would get the cane and it would really hurt but then after there was this strange feeling of relief.

    I guess I developed a fetish or a yearning for pain. I tried to get my wife to spank, cane, whip me but she does not like the idea and it is not hard enough. She has often said to me to go find someone to do this with.

    I understand your desire. To not be in control. To cry out. There is a freedom in a weird way. So sometimes. Just occasionally I will visit a "dominatrix" and they will tie me to a bed and cane or whip me. I go through stages of fanaticising about it. Then when I am tied down and struggling with the pain I think I am a stupid messed up idiot. It is a huge relief to cry & scream out. I contract with them to not stop no matter how much I beg or cry out. It is unbelievably painful and sometimes I have no idea how many lashes I will receive. I beg and cry and plead and the pain keeps coming. Then when it is over there is this clarity. A feeling of alertness. Like standing on the top of a mountain or the bow of a sailing boat with a cool fresh breeze on your face on a warm sunny day. A feeling of achievement. At the same time its a love hate thing. I sometimes feel stupid and vow to myself never to do it again but time passes and I start thinking about it and eventually I pick up the phone and make a booking.

    Weird hey.

    (I am not in anyway condoning non consensual activity of any sort. Just to be clear on that! )

    So maybe we can meet up and I can spank you. :)
    No idea how to meet up. I live in Australia but I travel.

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