she's the one. I want her for all time. It's not because she does everything for me but because she's the first woman to stand up to me ever. She takes none of my s***. I was being an a****** to her and she popped me in my eye and that sounds bad but I really did deserve it. I've gotten away with too much in my life and I don't know why. This girl demands the best from me and will accept nothing less. She makes me a better man, she makes me want to BE a better man everyday. But the thing is, she knows me from back in the day when I wasn't a better man, when I was immature and a bit of a player. And now she won't commit to me, even though she loves me, because she doesn't trust me. And I suppose she's right to keep her guard up on me. But I don't want to be that man anymore. She doesn't seem to believe that. How do I prove to her that I AM that man that she can count on? How do I make it clear to her the effect she's had on me? I've been in relationships before but this is very different. This is something else. I really want to be with her. I can't NOT be with her. What am I going to do? How am I going to make her believe? I've never said this about any woman but... I need her.

Jul 8, 2010

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  • Ugh, you sound like one of those repulsive player types who encountered a Real Woman, no wonder you fvcked it up. If you truly have had a whole lifetime of having your way, my money is on you not having the stones to evolve into something worth her time. Hopefully you've slashed your wrists by now. Cretin.

  • You can start by growing the f*** up. Here's how:

    -Stop making up elements and half-truths in stories to make yourself look better.
    -Stop being such an immature creeper. Talk to her FtF instead of telling literally everyone but HER how you feel!
    -Get to know her as a human being. Get out of your own head. Listen to her when she talks.
    -If you've been enough of a d*** to earn a pop in the eye, you have some apologizing to do. Maybe she does too, maybe not. Find out.

    You are not yet a man she can count on, but this would be a good start.

  • I doubt you come around here anymore, but if you do-- this is your Sign.

  • The most important thing any man can devote to a woman is time. With patience, maybe you can prove to her how serious you are about being with her.

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