When your mom dies, you can do whatever you want.
These are the words my dad said to me months before he died. The thing is, that's all I ever wanted to do. Whatever I wanted. My entire life, people told me what I have to do with it. I have to have a job. I have to be on jury duty. I have to have a funeral. The list is endless. I got so sick of people telling me what I have to do with my life. It's my life, not theirs so I should be free to do whatever I want with it. Even though my dad said that when mom died I could do anything I wanted, it was always my intentions of doing so whether my dad told me I could or couldn't.
Mar 21
My Mom died and I want her back. Life was much better when we were living together.
Why wait, do your own thing now!
Right now, I have to take care of my mom. She's never had a job so with my dad dead, I have to help pay some of the bills while me and my split between who pays the rent.
Why.
I don't let my wife do whatever she wants.