Too shy

My wife is extremely shy. Any time another man looks at her or tries to talk to her she blushes and turns away. Sometimes she reports to me, in very exaggerated terms, other men "seducing" her. I understand some people are shy, but my wife's shyness may be edging on a paranoia.
I tried to work round this and I showed her some ** images of men (online) and then some other video material where these men ** and say compliments to women watching them via web cameras. I expected my wife to freak out at a point, but she just commented that these were "actors" and in real life men are real. I took the argument as she is likely right most of ** models are pros.
Now I know that one of my friends likes my wife very much, he did try to pick her up, before I married her. I told him and he said that was indeed the case, she run away from him holding a bouquet of flowers trying to invite her to a date. I told him it was still the case and asked if he would accept to do a prank on her. We talked the details over and we had a plan A, B and C. Just to avoid any unwanted and unintended fuss.
Now I told my wife it was my friends birthday and she accepted we would invite him over to a dinner at our place. He came we ate and drank and listened to the music. Then we sat on the sofa, my wife in the middle. We were to watch some series but I flicked the button and instead the big screen started to play an ** scene where a woman sits in between two men on a sofa and then she starts to please them both. I thought my wife being so shy would have run away and shriek. But she stayed cool watching the video with us. Then I started to copy the action of that video. I slid my hand between her thighs and I pulled her dress up. Then I pulled her head suggesting she could unzip my trousers. Which she did. Then, with the video playing, we did to my wife almost anything the video had (except some very extreme things that we found just too much). Then we switched the set off and we drank coffee and we said goodbye to our friend.
When I asked my wife that night if she was not too shy to do play such games with me and my friend she told me I am dumb and I do not understand. She said she was OK with what we did, but it was again "just playing". "And real life is not a game, it is real".
So I understand now she has no problem with sexuality or intimacy but only with some things that I may be unable to do anything about.
Makes me wonder if I should ask her to get help from a (?) psychologist. Or else we will have to live a life where she always panics when a regular and healthy male shows her any interest.
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