Back in 2008, I wrote this girl S some very mean emails. I was p***** that she was dating a guy I was romantically involved with. Their relationship was messed up beyond belief. He had broken up with her before, but she used manipulation and his bond to her son to get him to take her back. She then turned around and dumped him. That's when he and I started getting involved. I knew that I wouldn't end up with him, but I was happy, and he had confessed he had liked me as more than a friend for over a year..before S and her kid came on the scene. I felt he was mine and she stole him from me.
The guy had told me and others he didn't plan on being with her for the long term. He always talked trash about her. When I found out she was back on the scene and that he had made me the other woman, I was livid at them both. S knew what to say and do to get him back with her. I was mad at him for lying to me so I found out where she worked and told her EVERYTHING he had said and done behind her back. Everything I had said was the truth except for the fact he got somebody pregnant. Well, truth be told, I wanted to have his child, but it didn't work out. I called her a golddigger, s***, and that her son was a b******(technically he is). I also made fun of her fake tan..which for the record looks REALLY bad. What I hoped to accomplish was they would break up and he'd find somebody else. Like I said, I knew we were just having a fling, but felt he deserved far better.
Evidently, S is very immature. She showed the emails to everybody and got the guy to do the same. She actually called the cops because she thought I was coming to kill her. I wasn't going to do that. I knew all that personal stuff about her because the guy told me. Thankfully, I got word of her plans thanks to somebody's big mouth. I immediately stopped writing her and just settled for slandering her. Everything I said about her was true. But now I feel bad that I sunk to that level. They did eventually break up, but not because of me. He did exactly what I said he'd do: find somebody else and leave her and her son in the dust. But I do want to apologize to her for my actions. I would email her, but I know that she has a tendency to take things out of context and show private messages. I was angry the guy I loved kept being taken away from me. I was bitter that our relationship; which had no drama, was messed up because she came on the scene. I was angry that the baby I thought I was going to have with him didn't come to be. But when S came along with her kid and he started acting like a daddy, I went crazy. He freaked at the idea of having his own child. I was livid. But what I said about him not being faithful was true. I was the other woman and going through a terrible time when all that happened. I'm sorry, S. And I'm sorry he dumped you for good last year and made things official with another girl just a few short months afterwards. I know that was a slap in the face when you heard about it. But I was wrong to confront you in the way I did.