It keeps getting more complicated

I posted on here a while back that I had feelings for a co-worker. I still haven't told him. In the meantime my ex-boyfriend I had been off and on with for a very long time begged me to get back with him, promised he'd change (he never cheated on me or hit me, he's just self-centered), said I'm the only one for him. So I gave him a second chance. But it's just not the same, I am not in love with him like I once was, I can't stop flirting with other guys and I still have feelings for my co-worker. I think my co-worker has no clue. And even if we were alone together, he doesn't seem the type to have any experience with women, he's shy and would probably not make a move on me. He lives with his mother for christsakes. If it was boyfriend I would tell him he needs to make more money, get his own place etc, but I like my dorky co-worker even if he lives with his mom, has a crappy car and a s*** job. What the h*** am I supposed to do?

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  • SO you want the dork..BUT you don't want what he really is? All you want to do is change him into something you really want. Leave the dork alone and break up with your ex too.

  • Good advice!

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