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It makes me so mad
Nothing ** me off more when my sister talks about how she's "traumatized" by the time her ex boyfriend slapped her across the face once...she makes it a huge deal and the family feel soo sorry for her....
If anyone should be the emotionally damaged one its me...
My first boyfriend (and so far I haven't had another boyfriend after him) was extremely abusive towards me...I was slammed into walls, punched, kicked....to the point where I couldn't even stand up...I've had knives held up to my throat and I had to beg for my life numerous times. I've had to come home with bruises and my family didn't even notice...
They now know that I was abused and really don't seem to care...
But with my sister they comfort her whenever she brings it up...
Because of this I've been avoiding relationships. Whenever I start to get close to a guy I run away from them before anything really develops...
I also have a fear of knives and I'm incredibly jumpy...
And it bugs me when people laugh and ask me "man why are you so jumpy!?"
Before this happened I had such an innocent mind and I always thought the best of people...now all I think is that everyone Is out to get me and they want to hurt me....
So yeah...I would have taken 1 slap in the face instead of all the ** I had to go through...
And this happened to me 4 years ago and I still have nightmares everynight...yet I have to go on and act like nothing is wrong with me...
Your sister is a perfect example of why humanity is done. She's a professional victim, like so many in the world today. And there you are on the opposite end, having endured some REAL ** and going unheard. I can relate to you. Sister can die in a grease fire.
Well she's the older sister...not the younger one
Though u are right Its not like I'm trying to get pity I just get angry that she's so dramatic and yet if I were to complain once about it I would be told to "stop complaining"....
Stop being such a drama queen.