I just made a confession that didn't go through but just making it made me feel so much better I don't think I need to rewrite it. I feel like I'm in neutral despite all the accomplishments I've received. I'm the youngest of my siblings by nearly a decade and none of us are married but highly educated yet I want a family now. I want the husband, the wedding, the baby. My southern upbringing has me watching girls my same age (about 21) on they're second kid. Married for years. And I'm like, "damn, when does that happen for me?" I can't help but wonder if I hadn't have left my home town would that have happened to me? Do I want that? Really? Or am I just lonely? Do I look at my siblings as less successful for holding off on a family? Will I be different?

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  • I am much older than you, never married and still looking. You are so young just try and have fun and be all that you can be, everything comes in time. Many people regret not living when they marry too young, never get to travel or pursue a career etc, just simple freedom like sleeping in or being able to go out for an evening.

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