His family

I'm only with my boyfriend for his family. Don't get me wrong, I have love for him, but it's becoming more that of a best friend and an attachment. I enjoy his company. However, he isn't really a good partner, at least in my standards. He's gluttonous, insecure, and immature at an age where he shouldn't be, which I was happy with until I grew up myself. His family, on the other hand, are people I've always wanted. I grew up in a troubled environment, where I had to take on a parental role for my siblings and have a strained relationship with my parents. Biol-dad is out of the picture, but the step-dad isn't trustworthy. My boyfriend's family is the complete opposite. His mom welcomed me with open arms. She's affectionate in her actions and words. We have such a good relationship. I didn't have to do anything to win her over, she just did it. His siblings see me as an individual -- not someone that has to take care of them. His dad is silly and good-natured. Even their home provides a safe haven of good energy. I know it's selfish. I don't want to lose all of that.

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  • UNATTRACTIVE SON OF A B****, HE WASN'T MY FIRST HE WASN'T MY LAST, HE WASN'T MY EVERYTHING. HE FEELS GUILTY WHEN HE MASTURBATES, NOW YOU LISTEN TO ME, WE BOTH MET AT SCHOOL AND GOT HONORS AND IF YOU PULL ANYTHING F***** UP OR FUNNY THEY WILL F****** WELL KILL YOU YOURSELF.

  • What the actual f**.

  • You may not be aware of it, but the phrase "I have love for him" means "I don't love him". The hedging you're doing is intended to make it easier for you to crush him when the time comes. That's simple cruelty.

  • OP here. I don't understand. What do you mean by "hedging"?

  • The longer you stay, the harder it will be. If it continues, soon it will be just you and him, alone. Without his family around. Think about that.

  • Sounds bad, the losers family said to me s*** like "your tweezers will be your best friend" ie, facial hair removal insult.

  • You need to leave in the long run it will eventually mess with your mental health

  • How so?

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