I want to Cuddle with my mom while naked

I was sexually abuse when I was yonger, so I was never touched in a "nice" way. I also have never wanted to show anyone my naked body before. I have masterbated as long as I can remember, and my life has all been sexual.
I have recently been Adopted, I consider this woman to be my mother now. I really want to feel close to her, and I trust her alot. I want to get comfortable with her so I can lay in bed naked with her. I don't want to do anything Sexual, or for it to be sexual at all. I just want some skin to skin contact. I have never had that before. I also want to suck on her breast if It is okay with her. I think this is really strange, and I'm embarrassed to ask her. Any mothers out there that think this would be okay? Or should I just let the thought stay in my mind and not act on it. Please help me! P.s. I am an 18 year old Female. Who is STRAIGHT!

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  • There is nothing wrong with wanting to be close with your mother and trust her totally. However, even boundaries must be kept with parents. Instead of wishing this, why not get into to therapy so that you can heal from your past sexual abuse. Once you do this, your boundaries and trust will improve. Take care and let us know how things work out.

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  • I don't know if your mother would let you but that sounds normal to me, as you said you haven't had that touch before so it's pretty normal that you'd want it (sexual or not), you wanna feel comfortable and that you have someone you can trust. My opinion, it's totally normal and don't listen to what people say about you, i think they just don't understand. :)
    I think it's totally normal, so don't listen or worry about what anyone says or what anyone thinks. Unless they're possative responses. :)

  • i am so sorry to know that you were sexually abused.sorry you are 18.you are not a baby to suck mother breast . your thought is not normal maybe because you had been sexually abused and dont know what is normal anymore.

  • Bummer. Thanks for your response!

  • what does it mean bummer. and why did you call me bummer? i am a foreigner

  • I didn't call you Bummer. It kind of means, " That is sad". I was not happy that according to you, only babies can suck their mothers breast.

  • thanks for the explanation of the words bummer. you might not to be happy but it is true, it is normal and how you wrote she would not let you to do it.


  • So you would be aroused by your daughter sucking on you're nipples. Interesting. Maybe I will ask her. I really hope she doesn't freak!

  • I would ask her. If my daughter wanted to, and had that desire inside of her I would want her to share it with me. I would certainly not show any sexual arousal as the mother while my daughter would lay next to me sucking on my nipple. I would enjoy it very much. I wouldn't show her I was aroused by it though. It would be sensual and understandable. I would let play with her hair while she sucked on my nipples to comfort her.

  • Thanks for responding by the way

  • I asked her, she said it was very weird and sexual. She said she wouldn't let me do it.

  • Did you ever get to do it to another female?

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