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I'm too chicken
I think of a day when I get in a fight. I'm afraid I'll break a bone or something, I'm kinda sensitive n emotional, kinda nerdy. I try to be a man but I'm afraid, for e.g I drive, but I'm afraid I'd hit someone and people would beat me. I like a girl but I cant tell her to her face. I have a great family but I think of a day when they need my muscle strength but I would chicken out?? I'm 18 by the way, and Im male.
You're young and thinking too much into situations. Very few situations actually require a physical response. I'm like you actually. I was actually probably much more chicken and a really pathetic wimp when I was a kid. That's what got me picked on and made an easy target. I wish I stood up to those bullies then instead of running and hiding like a coward. I wish I didn't disgrace myself and my family by being such a coward. That was so long ago. I still haven't gotten over it. what it taught me though is that I have to stand up for myself. You do too. You're the only person who can stop you from being "chicken". If you like a girl you have to tell her. There is no can't. Turn your can't into CAN. If you don't you'll be sure to regret it.
Thx. I'll try...
Sounds like its all about confidence so try building some by working out and taking some self defense classes. Will you be a total badass? probably not but you'll feel better about yourself and more confident in knowing what to expect in a fight. Also girls tend to respond to guys who work out and are confident in themselves.
i've been there in two situations (the girl and fight) essentially i just stayed out of conflict and found something to focus on other than girls (or i would talk to a girl (rather since i had bottom locker every year i'd talk to her feet) got to know her asked her out got shot down she called me her friend gave me a hug turned around a kissed her (seemingly) recently acquired beau (as in saw him in a locker and said "i'll do him") and left end of story...)