Same old problem
I love my wife, but she doesn't want to have s**. She says that she loves me too, but I'm not sure if I believe her. The rare times we actually have s** its pretty passionless and forced. She tells me that she doesn't have any fantasies and she never even thinks about s**.
I don't know what to do. I feel so sad and depressed. I've tried to talk to her about it, but it always turns into an argument.
I hate myself and feel pretty much worthless. I don't know what to do. We argued tonight and she told me I had two options. Accept the fact our marriage would always be sexless and this way, or leave her. She doesn't care which one I choose as she's just sick of arguing over it. She tells me that this is normal, and most women are in the same situations as her, and most men are in the same situation as me. I just can't believe there are that many unhappy people in this work. She has no interest in seeing anyone about this to talk it through, she's told me that's just the way she is.
I don't know what to do. I'm so unhappy. I love my wife, we have two children who I love more than anything. I've chosen to have to live with the situation because I don't want to be away from them, but I'm so angry at my wife for forcing me to make that choice.