Need to grow up?
I admit that i'm immature. I'm 22 and was in a relationship with a beautiful girl. The only problems were she felt i was immature and didn't listen to her so, she told me that we're just friends now. And if i ever want to be with her again i'm gonna have to grow up.
MY whole problem is that i've seen ppl my age and what they like to consider "grown up" things. Many have to have a drink with alcohol, a smoke, and/or s** before they feel they are having a good time. Or i have to care and not care about certain things or else i'd bee deemed immature. i'm srry but WTF?
I'm just scared that if i do mature i'll lose who i am and just become dull like alot of "mature" ppl i've met in the name of maturity..But i do love her and would like to be with her to make her happy so...any advice, suggestions, etc?