People Say I Am A Gold Digger

I think it's so totally great that you're so honest about your wants and your needs. The women who are interested in me all try to play coy and pretend like they don't care about the money, and I wish that just ONE would just be upfront about it. I would respect that, and that would set her out from the crowd, and -- to be honest -- THAT is who I would marry.

what point is there in dating some broke-** **? i will tell you: theres no point in it. so why bother if they cant take care of you? why should you take care of them? let all those broke-** ** go to ** **.

Whats wrong with being a goldigger? i been one my whole life and im over 40. i have a t-shirt that says goldigger on it and i even have a dangle for my bellybutton piercing that says goldigger too. im proud of being a goldigger and im proud of being so good at it. you should be proud too.

You have a printed T-shirt and a navel piercing, and those things are what you're proud of in your 40s. Yep, I'd be "proud" if I were you too! (In this case, "proud" meaning "ready to step in front of a bus to end my sorry waste of an existence")

this is one of the best posts on this site........ever.

this is one of the best posts on this site...........ever.

If you're going to "look out for your future", you might as well understand what's in it.

I remember when I was younger. I saw a pretty car with "good looks and a hot body", so I decided to "lease it with an option to buy". So I paid the note faithfully every month and enjoyed "riding" that car every day. It had a lot of fun. The only problem is that as time went on, the car started getting older and older. Finally one day I saw a different car that was much younger and newer with "good looks and a great body". Best thing about it was that it cost the same as the old car that I was currently driving. You know what I did? I kicked that old car to the curb, and used the same money I was paying on the old car to "lease" the new car (with an option to buy, of course).

I'm sure that some one will buy that "old clunker" car some day, or it might end up in the junk yard. Either way, I don't care because i've had my fun and I'm through with it. Although I have to admit, sometimes I wonder if that "old clunker" was stupid enough to think that I would actually buy it one day?

See, that's the problem with metaphors, and with analogies. They quickly reach the limits of their logic and then they break down and become not only non-productive comparisons, but counter-productive comparisons. Cars can't take care of themselves. And isn't that precisely what this girl is doing? Taking care of herself? She's right. You're wrong. And you always will be.

This is another problem with "metaphors, and with analogies"... Everyone doesn't always understand them, and they go over a lot of people's heads. Perhaps you should read her original post again. She's never says that she was looking to "take care of herself". She specifically stated that she is looking " for a rich guy that can provide for me". This game is timeless, and certainly not original. She is certainly welcomed to play (herself) if she would like. But like many others before her, she will most likely wind up as an "old clunker".

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It is stupid not to find the richest guy you can to tie the knot with or at least have as a generous boyfriend. Why settle for less and be broke? It makes no sense.

I don exactly the same thing. EXACTLY. Right now I'm dating two guys and I made both of them tell me about their financial situation before I ever agreed to even go out on a date with them. One pays my rent on my condo and the other pays the note on my Mercedes. I split time between the two and neither one knows about the other one. Both of them are in love with me, and I treat them equally well. It's perfect, for them and for me. But especially for me.

Gee, what a Prize you are...and sadly far too typical.

Your sister's experience PROVES that your attitude and your approach are correct. Q.e.d.

Ur not a gold digger u are a prostitute.

wrong......shes just looking out for herself......like every man in all of history

I see ur point and bow to ur wisdom.

Bow on my ** while your at it.

keep doing what your doing and dont ever stop.

You are a gold digger. Have you ever thought of working for a living? Perhaps you might discover that you have other talents besides stealing.

** straight. ** straight! If more girls thought like you do, fewer of them would be kicked to the curb by men: they'd be in control of men, like you are. I love the way you think. Totally love it.

The Lord rebuke you.