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I prefer masterbating over ** with husband
Ive been married for 22 yrs to husband and ** is boring with him a friend suggested I try a ** years ago , so I did and it was amazing since then I tried ** , and now I have a john holmes ** and with that and te ** I can can ** multiple times, but now cant stand to have ** with husband , I love him but not sexually anymore .
It is spelled masturbating.
I like to say thank everyone for the suggestions , im not looking for a relationship away from my husband , or into cheating . I love my husband he is a very good man I just prefer ** with my toys , I just enjoy having something bigger in me , shile plesing myself, are there any ladies out ghere in my situation? Any suggestions
Nothing wrong with wanting something bigger.
Hello Anonymous,
I think the issue is not as big as you have made it in your head. Believe me, its just a bit of adjustment that you need to make with yourself and you will be as happy as you want in both the departments (sexual satisfaction as well as your relationship with your husband). I think all you have to do is to develop a frame of mind where in you have ** with your husband for his sake. The sole purpose in your mind at that moment should be that he enjoys ** with you and you are doing it for his pleasure not yours. You have found other ways to pleasure yourself and you are enjoying it. This would be something like eating a dish that he likes and you hate, just to make him happy. The benefits that this setup would give are
1)You will have a good relationship with your husband and this will reduce his chances of going out of the marriage.
2)There are chance of interaction with him during ** and you can use them to change his ways/ ideas or concepts about ** to better suite you. E.g., if you don’t have ** with him at all and suggest swinging, he may not take it positively enough. If you have ** with him, and suggest swinging, there are more chances that he may take it positively.
Wish you luck,
Code Ashes.
You really should consider swinging , just make sure you can trust the couple . Be highly selective. ** is 10 times hotter with a better lover . My wife used to have one ** with me and then go to sleep, now she has ** all night long with her lover .
I am not the best lover for my wife, so I experimented and now I have her a lover , about once a week or so , sometimes longer . Sh enjoys ** much more now , I am not cheated because I enjoy his wife . But I am actually enjoying to see my wife have lots of ** , it changed her entire personality . She and his wife plan everything , we both have had vasectomy so things are ok . Sometimes just a different man can make the difference or a different woman. He treats my wife well and she adores the affection and love the ** .