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I do still miss her
I really regret breaking up with this girl a few years ago. I found to she was still in love with her ex and said she had planned to be with him, obviously I said we're over but what I didn't realise was she wasn't planning on being with him. She spent most of her time with me and she didn't have a car or transport to see him.
She was pretty awesome, young and ** always up for anything we spent all our spare time together. ** was amazing and everybody couldn't believe she was with me.
she lives with him now and they had a kid together, apparently he's being a complete ** to her and neglecting her and the kid, that honestly really annoys me, she's amazing and can't understand his attitude.
its been a long time since we spoke but sometimes when I'm alone she pops into my head and I hope she's doing well. I know she never will but if she messaged me my heart would miss a beat.
I think about the really good times we had and sometimes makes me sad
Your experience is very similar to mine, and I'm very sorry for that because those feelings seem to never go away or resolve themselves favorably. We want to believe that kindness is always recognized simply for what it is, and is always appreciated, but many people -- especially many women -- take it as weakness and as susceptibility to manipulation and abuse, although very few would admit to that and would even feign offense at its suggestion. My advice is to train your thoughts to focus on something other than the lost love, and try to find someone who can and will appreciate the reality of your loving kindness. Best wishes.