My wife is killing me

I love my wife a lot, we were in love for many years before marriage, even now I love her a lot and I am sure she loves me too. I always wished to be an entrepreneur, and when I started my business I told she could become a part of this organisation and she is in it with full heatedly. She is a top rank student and she was very upset always that she couldn't work, we had a child exactly 9 months from marriage so she could not take up a career and when my first child was two she had a second child. So I had promised her when I start up our business she could work for it.

After she started working she takes it too seriously and sometimes when she start saying plans I become angry, and she refutes by saying hurtful things. Last time she lost her blood pressure and she nearly died. Today she threatened me in another way, I feel I am losing my family life, losing her love, losing my feelings towards her, I don't want to loose all this, I want to love her, I want to be with her.

I am saying this so you could pray for us to be better again, fall in love again, be happy and talkative like the good old days.

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  • Relationships are difficult they get even harder the longer you are together, when Children are involved and if you work together. It seems to me that you really love and care for your wife and that is so admirable. I would talk to your wife and tell her how you feel, don't yell at her use names, tell her you want her to be a part of this but....?etc, also talk to her and tell her that when you have disagreements you never use hurtful names or say things to slander the other person, you can have a disagreement and discussion without that, however if this is what it leads to and this discussion is not helping at all and going no where I really suggest going to couples therapy, couples therapy is always seen as this last resort type of thing but I don't see it that way, it's somethig that will strengthen your relationship and your life overall so why not give it a go

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