I am a woman and In the past I have been a little conservative about s** but lately I've been fantasizing about submission and dominant men. I have a boyfriend who is extremely vanilla. I don't want to give such a strong relationship up but I am craving to experiment in ways that he is not ready for. I also think that when I start to experiment I want someone who knows what they're doing. I do not want to have to tell him what to do.. That defeats the purpose right? For now I am keeping this to myself and supressing these new thoughts.