After I found out my wife had another affair, I found someone to do the same thing with. My wife's affair only lasted about a month but I have been involved for a few years now with the other woman. I recently learned she, my wife, was heading down that road again. Here is the sticky part, I stopped seeing the other woman, and have been spending more time with one of our friends that I am really attracted to and often wonder what she would be like to spend a long afternoon with. Taboo, I know but things have been getting more heated between us. Guess I need to go j*** off and think about f****** her then take a cold shower.