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Got my Husband to start smoking
I love being a smoker. I began when I was 13 and smoke a pack and a half a day of Benson and Hedges. My husband wasn't a smoker when we met. After we got married, I thought it would be nice if he could share smokes with me, so I started coaxing him to try it. After months of no success, he finally relented. He now smokes about 7 or 8 B&Hs a day, and while he was concerned about his health at first, the more the addiction has taken a hold of him, the less he cares. I don't either, really, but still get guilt feelings (a little) when I think that I was responsible for maybe giving him lung cancer in the distant future. Personally, I don't worry about my health. I'm too in love with cigarettes to quit. And as my husband slowly starts to smoke more and more, he doesn't seem to worry about quitting either. And yes--we do enjoy many smokes together!
When my wife and I were in our 30’s we were on a second honeymoon we started to talk about things we hadn’t experienced when we were younger.
We started to experiment and explore, trying new things, taking minor risks. She experimented with cigarettes enough to start to enjoy them. I encouraged her, because I thought it was really hot that she being so “bad”
Needless to say we had a few conversations about addiction. At one point she said “Right now I’m not sure I care if I get addicted”. I said “That so hot, you really don’t care?” She said “Well, I know its bad. . .” After that I sort of admitted I wanted her to be bad.
After that she started taking smoke breaks with her friends at work. She smokes almost a pack a day now and we both love it.
I hope you ate okay with it when he gets sick
He likes to smoke now too. At least it was his own decision to smoke. And it is a part of your relationship now.
Me and my wife both smoke. i got her to try and she is now a smoker like me. we both enjoy it and really like the quiet times when we smoke together.
My wife picked up a smoking habit from her co-workers when she was in her mid 30's. They got tired of her lectures and convinced her to try it. She was curious so she kept at it long enough that she started to enjoy it then stopped for a while. About 6 months later we had a fight and she told me she really just wanted to smoke. I told her that I she really enjoyed she should do it. It stinks, but it makes her happy and she's lost weight from it so I'm ok with it.
Good to hear! ENJOY!!!
Nice story...it’s a pleasure to be able to guide someone to the pleasures of becoming a smoker.
I started smoking at age8 i saw it as ** with the women 1968 im old i know still love it all the way matt
Nice way to seek validation that everything youre doing is right
My next door neighbor seduced her other neighbor, a guy who was into bicycling and was a verbally obvious anti-smoker, to start smoking with her (it's a long story). Needless to say, they moved in together and are both smoking 5 years later. He's gained weight and doesn't cycle much these days either. Big wow from me.
I am curious about the story.
I don't think you need to regret anything! I also LOVE smoking and have gotten other people started on it. So just ENJOY! In fact, help him to INCREASE his intake!
My gf got me start. She smokes a lot, maybe 1.5 packs a day. I smoke maybe half of that but I do really enjoy it.