I am sooooo sick of being a mother. I am worn out with even the thought of going home to have to be around them. I have a twelve year old that can't seem to do anything I or her father ask her to do. She's constantly being a complete a****** to her seven year old sister. They constantly while, complain, and beg for everything! My husband and I never have any time to ourselves and it's so depressing and draining. I love them because they are mine but I wish I never agreed to have children. I never assumed that having kids would be easy at all, but I also never imagined that I would hate it so much!!!! Sometimes I wish I could stay at work so I don't have to go around them. I really don't see the hype about being a mother at all. My husband and I would be so much happier if it were just the two of us. Anytime we go anywhere simple like out to eat the price is ridiculous all for the little one NOT to eat?? Wasted money. Spending our hard earned money on Christmas all for them to stop playing with everything by New Year's Eve. Wasted money. My house never stays clean, my car is a mess, my husband and I can't afford to do anything for ourselves because they are little leaches. I sometimes just wanna runaway and disappear. My home has become infested with bugs because the oldest steals food from the kitchen and hides the wrappers instead of throwing them away, as if we don't know she did it to begin with!!! I'm so over this lifestyle. I'm so glad I finally got to get this off my chest.


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  • You sound miserable. What about enlisting the help of your family or friends with your children so that you can get a break? Also have you tried reading up on parenting articles so that you can get your children to better behave. Your problem is not that of being a parent but of controlling your children and balancing your time. Take care and therapy is an option if these suggestions don't help.

  • I have the same damn problem and feel for you because it really is hard too deal with.Just try to hang in there and understand that one day the little s**** will leave the nest.

  • You need SuperNanny and a vacation!

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