Fiancé Embarrased by my outfit
I have always been extremely conservative. I've been working out and dieting, and starting to feel good about myself. My friends and I all went out shopping yesterday, and they encouraged me to buy a dress out of my comfort zone for dinner and drinks out with our husbands/fiancés. The dress fit nicely, and was knee length, but had cleavage showing and was a bit lowcut. My girlfriends said I have low self esteem, and that I need to dress up. My fiancé does not like me to appear sexy when we go out. The girls said he isn't ever complimentary or nice, and I just for once need to dress up and look like a knockout and show him I've been working out and am proud of myself.
So all the ladies bought dresses and we all got ready together and then decided to meet up with our finances and husbands for fun. When we showed up, everyone said how great we looked, and wow! My fiancé gritted his teeth and I knew instantly I was in trouble. When we got to dinner, my fiancé wouldn't talk to me. When I came up to him and said I wanted to look nice and a little sexy for him, he told me to walk away or he would make a scene. We didn't talk at all during dinner. When we got home, he told me he'd never been so embarrassed of anyone in his life, that I looked like a s***, a w****, a stripper. He said that he was repulsed by me and disgusted with me. We slept in separate rooms. Tonight when he came home from work, he said he can't look at me and that he is going out, and didn't care if I was here when he got home. We've been together 10 years, and I've never dressed sexy once. I asked how he could throw us away over a dress, and he said obviously I'm not who he thought I was. I tried apologizing, but he said the embarrassment can't be forgotten, and the image of his friends seeing my cleavage is burned in his head and he won't forget. I feel so upset with myself that I wore something I knew he would disapprove of. I feel terrible that I disrespected him. What do I do???