Nearly all of my relatives except one (and i never get to see him) are constant complainers. I absolutely hate spending anytime with them lately, two of them will literally jump down your throat when you arrive instead of just saying hi. The worse part is that I never want to go to these gatherings to begin with due to their refusal to be polite. They are loud, rude, swear like truck drivers and they are women, self-promoting (they both think they are soooo important). So sick of self- righteous, rude, loud, chronic complainers who have no situational awareness or compassion for our feelings. Why lord?