My wife's boss

Something happened this weekend that I cannot even write down. Just left for Washington for good. Got a transfer for my new job. I'm out for good My daughter starts collage in the same city in august so when re perfect. I feel reborn.

For what it's worth......I'm so happy for you!! I was actually worried for your mental and physical health, but it seems that all of that has now been eliminated by your transfer and relocation. I hope you'll find someone in Washington (is it DC or the state?) who can appreciate your supportive nature without taking so much advantage of it as to create an abuse. Good luck and be well.

Thank you for the u so much. It is D.C. I am really excited

This is really good news for you! Congratulations!!! And best wishes! You'll be so happier when your away from that shrew!

They call women like this "whores" for a good reason.

Maybe so but the look on her face when she is enjoying herself.....,, and no hangups about it. Thanks n her defense she is not frigid like other 50 year old woman. And she is really is in control of her men. She gets what she wants. It's tough for me except to see this beautiful woman in total control rol and ecstasy is something I can't explain in writing

Time for you to dump this ** and go get yourself another **.

I'm sorry but I truly do not understand why you would give a ** about a woman who treats you like **. I think it must be a sickness, a mental illness of some sort. You need help.

^this^ is true.she is sick.but you are sicker.

You're going down fast.

....no....YOU are the one who is going down fast.......

YOU ARE!

You have lost all your perspective on this situation and on its effect on you. There's nothing happening here that is even slightly **. It's all just wrong and sick and ** up. Either be the man in the relationship and make her stop this, or pack your belongings and leave and don't ever speak with her again. You have to get out before it kills you. You're going down fast.

Yesterday got home from the gym and was in the kitchen making coffee. I heard someone come downstairs and looked up to see the gym guy open my refrigerator for something. He came down totally naked at 10 am. I feel like a wilted string bean seeing him. Way over 6 feet. His arms are cut his chest looks like a chiseled Michelangelo statue. And his ** not erect was longer than mine fully. Now I know why my wife doesn't let me in her. It would feel like nothing after that. Sure he came down on purpose. He went upstairs and over the next 3 hours pounded her while she screamed. It would get quiet then he did her again. I knew he came twice by the load grunts. All while I was doing my laundry and ironing for the week. After I was done I wanted to leave and come back when he was gone.
I had to go ask her for 20 for gas since she gets all my check. She said I don't have it and asked the gym guy if he did. He handed me the 20 and said don't fn spend it all in one place All while he was laying where I used to with my wife's head on his chest and his big c right there

You must end this. END this. Do it now. This can't work and you know it. Please just stop it. If you allow it to continue, you'll be doing irreparable damage to yourself and to your daughter.

It's the gym guy that is going to wind up the winner here. Soon, your wife will have all your money, and all of the doctor's money, and she will have set herself up to have the gym guy come by to service her. She'll still go to work at the doctor's office, and will make love to him while she's there, even right in front of the other employees. She'll still date, she'll still pick up the random guy at the club, at the mall, at church, etc. But the gym guy will be number one, and you'll be seeing him constantly. She'll make you watch him service her, telling you, "this is how a REAL man does it." And you'll be eating all those massive loads he produces, except for those she saves for her own consumption. Yeah, he's going to have her screaming a lot. He's going to be ** a lot. Get used to it. Yesterday morning? That's your future.

You may be right. When he left she kissed him like a real lover. Last night while she had me massage her she talked about him. She talks to me like she is telling her best friend her secrets. It's so weird how she just tells me her thoughts and feelings.
She said she just gets wet looking at him. He is such a man. When he is on top she loses thought of everything but him. He knows her body , every inch where to kiss and touch and where to thrust
She said they time it to ** together. Only man she did that with and when he does all his muscles tense and she grabs his ** and puls it to her and goes wild with ecstasy. This is what she told her like we are collage friends
When I saw him even the first time I knew this was the exact man that turns her on Tall muscular silver hair. Alpha. Her dream body. I cannot come close. I am not six feet plus. That muscular and big down there. And not a cocky alpha that knows it.

She is gonna give you a std........

How do you expect to live this way? It's fun and games right now, but the novelty will have worn off in a few weeks, and then what? Do you think you can survive this? Get out NOW!!!!! If you can't do it for yourself, do it for your daughter! Give her at least one parent who is a decent example of adult behavior! Don't leave her with that ** you married......by mistake!!!

I came back from overseas knowing my girlfriends sick mom was there so I had to move out. I could have looked for somewhere else but chose to stay at my house.
Upon entering my wife pulled me upstairs and pushed my head between her legs for what seemed like hours ,. Finally she pulled me up Ayala way and rubbed me with her lowerlleg till I came like a dog as she called it. She said she missed having me there to do everything and Tom me to the bathroom to bathe her and blow out her hair for a date. When the doc came to pick her up she left me to clean up the whole house and scrub the floors. She came home late and let me massage her to sleep. Watching her fall asleep I just looked at how beautiful she is in my eyes. She knows it and knows how to make me crave her.
She told me if I stay I can not speak to any woman without her permission and she has to check my phone daily. All my checks must go to her and I will have a allowance of cash for 20 a week This way I cannot spend it anywhere
She will let me use the credit card for gas and other emergencies but this way she will know I am not spending on anyone or anything. She said even though she has boyfriends I should not look or engage other women

You didn't leave her with any other alternatives, did you? Your disobedience necessitated her putting you on this leash, didn't it? You see that she has good reasons to call you "dog" (this isn't nearly the first time she's done so) and to treat you like one, right? Don't you agree? Didn't your own behavior mandate that she bind you this way? Will you ever learn that what's best for you is what you already have? Will you ever learn that she won't allow you to leave or to play around? Well? Will you? WILL YOU???

Eventually, the doctor will be in exactly the same position you are in now: all his money will be going to her accounts and he won't be able to talk to other women, much less ** any of them. And by then, your situation will be much worse.

....i think the same thing too..........not too long from now the doctor will be eating the ** from the gym guy....who pounds her mound every day and night................. and who pumps her ** full of his seed.........your wife will be dominating both you and the doctor........and after that the gym guy will also become her property........and all three of you will be her dogs......... while she goes out and starts ** somebody new and younger.....have fun......

You have really got yourself in to a mess. how you gonna get out ?

My wife emailed me a few times . She said when I come home she will xpects me to move right back she has left a big list of chores I need to do and told me Once my finished she will let me please and massage her. She told me her doc and main gym guy have taken care of her but she needs me to clean her house and his condo and massage her to sleep. Sh sent me pics of her getting it from gym guy

In contrast my girlfriend sent me emails each night of her with flowers , each night a different kind. Why am I still hot for my wife

You're still hot for her because you have a submissive personality. You want to be controlled, manipulated, humiliated, hurt. You want to be OWNED. To you, that is love. Others will say that what you feel for her isn't love; that it's **, it's perverted, it's misplaced, it's ugly, it's wrong. But it's none of those things, and you know it. To you, it's pure love. It's what you want. It's what you NEED. Your wife has known that about you for a long time, probably since you first met, and if you think back through your courtship and marriage, you can probably see her shaping that urge in you, preparing you for what is happening right now. It's why she married you: she could see this was in you and that she could use it. It's why you married her: you could see this was in her and that you could not live without it. Viewed from the outside, your situation is going to worsen. Yes, it will become much, much worse than it is now. FAR more pain awaits you. You know that. But you WANT that pain. You LOVE that pain. You want her to hurt you so ** bad and long and dark and deep that you cannot WAIT for it to happen. You are aroused when you think of how many men she will ultimately be servicing, how much of their ** you will eat, and how often you will be changing the sheets in the bed you once shared with her, but which she now only makes available to men with much larger and better equipment than yours. Regardless of what others may think, you are still hot for your wife because you love her and she loves you. And this -- what's happening right now in your marriage -- proves that. Yes, she's a **. But a ** is precisely what you need. It's what you have always needed, ever since you entered puberty. And now, at last, you have it. Let's not kid ourselves, though. You aren't making a choice when you return home. YOU HAVE NO CHOICE. You are simply fulfilling your destiny. Go to her.

Wow . You have given me a defining moment. Your insight is incredible. Deep down inside I want to run to her. Take care of her. Love her.when she is mean I want to love her more. And you are right. Day one I knew deep inside my life would not be easy even though I did not expect this. She was always difficult and selfish. I always would give in or go back to her. Maybe I replaced this behavior for love. You are right sure trained me and I adore her. I just go back to how do you treat the person you love like this. She had the chance to leave but she must have feelings or knows I will serve her
I have been longing to go and kiss her feet and massage her. Take care but have been fighting because a rational person says this is not love
How do you know me so well????

I know you so well because I am a woman very much like your wife, married to a man almost exactly like you. Our situations are very similar, as well. I married my husband 26 years ago, in no small part because he was weak, much weaker than I am, and I used his weakness against him, every day, even while we were dating. I never allowed anyone else to see the manipulation, but I constantly reminded him of who was in control of our relationship. I subtly and subliminally prodded him into proposing (he would have taken too long), and then dangled him from my line like a hooked fish, watching him twist and flop, waiting for my answer, which I didn't give for quite a while. Our marriage has been the same. I had occasional flings during the first few years, right under his nose of course, but engaged in nothing serious until I knew he was too involved to ever leave, and then I began doing exactly what your wife is doing. I won't bore you with the particulars, but my first serious LTR was with HIS boss at work, and I used that affair to thoroughly break my husband's spirit. I told him before it began that it was going to happen, and then gradually began to give him the pain I knew he craved. Your wife's intentions -- and the level of her awareness of your psychosexual needs -- are much the same as mine, and while I cannot predict where she will lead you with precision, I know you well enough to know how you'll respond. And both you and I know how you SHOULD respond, don't we, darling? And we both also know that, whatever your wife does, you will follow like the good **-whipped puppy you are, won't you, darling? You love the darkness. Go to the darkness.

Are you physically stronger than him or mentally or both. Is he happy to serve you and did you intentionally set out to do this. Did you make his whole life revolve around you lol me my wife did

Your wife is clearly a piece of trash **. Dump that **.

Obviously you are married to one of the sexiest women who ever lived. Why would you go elsewhere? Anything you get from her is better than everything you'd get from anybody else.

She is ** you are right. Not just physically. She draws men in with her eyes then makes them chase her till she has them like little puppies.
She has long flowing hair big brown eyes. Beautiful Asian body. Firm . And she uses men like old shoes

When you get back go home to the only woman you actually love and stay there

Many years ago, you married an incredibly sexual and sensual woman. She's really off the charts. If you met her today, you would certainly marry her, even with her complicated loyalties. You wouldn't care that she sees other men. You would just want to be -- and be proud of being -- her husband. You would give anything to be her husband. So . . . . . . . be her husband.