My wife's boss

My wife started an affair with her boss. Yes, SHE was the one who went for HIM. It had gone for 7 months when I discovered it and confronted her. She cried, said she loved me, loved our family, and would never do it again. About a year after that, I found out that it was still going on, and had never actually ended: they were just being more devious and deceitful. We went to counselling and she swore the affair was over. Then, 6 months later she said she was 12 weeks pregnant, and admitted that the child was his: they had planned the pregnancy. She said she really didn't care what I did, stay or go, she was going to continue this outside relationship. I left. I had given her plenty of chances and she took none of them. Your wife is the same. She doesn't care about you. She only cares about herself. Kick her ** out and don't let her come back. Your daughter is old enough that this won't be devastating to her. She's going on to college anyway, so this is a perfect time to kick your ** to the curb. Kick the **.

You will quickly tire of being the fifth (or sixth) wheel. Stay with your new girlfriend. She is normal and that -- long term -- is much better for you. You know that's true.

Don't let this mean ** you married get control over you again. You did the right thing and got away. Now.......stay away.

This is my last update for a while. I am going to Thailand for 3 weeks to start a new job.
I did go over to my wives yesterday when she asked me to pick her up food .
When she opened the door she kissed me so long and took my upstairs.
She was with her second gym guy. She kneeled down and went down on me while he undressed her. Then she laid down and we took turns on her . When he was on top he had to put it in slow since he is big. He covered her whole body. Then I would get on top and then him. She looked so ** and sweaty. After a while he went so hard and came. I went next and finished in a few seconds. She then pushed me right down and made me please her till she did too.. then pushed me on him and made me clean him. This is my first time and it was unbelievable. After I massaged and took care of her while they watched TV.
I either have to stop going over or move from my friends house when I come back.

Please don't go back to her. Not ever. When you return from overseas, please go back to your girlfriend. If you don't, your wife will know she's got you bagged up and will treat you ** even worse than now. Please don't go home. Whatever you do, PLEASE DON'T GO HOME. PLEASE!!!!

Last night she stayed at the doc's condo.back to her normal self.

But didnt the doctor see all the bites and bruises? or did she keep the lights off so he couldnt see nothing?

Late last night my ""wife" called me and asked me to pick her up at a motel about 1 hour away. She said she was stuck there. When I got to the motel she was so drunk. She said it was ladies night out and some big guy came over and picked her up. They did lots of shots and he finally took her to this motel. She said when they got inside he went wild and took her for hours till she could not take it. She said he must have been on something. She had bite marks all over her chest and back and bruises on her arms . After they finished they fell asleep but he did get up and just left her there. I took her home and gave her a warm bath. Massaged her and fed her some soup and held her till she fell asleep. She was not taken against her will but did not expect to be left alone and was upset he did that. She thanked me for taking care. Said I was the only one she could call. She wouldn't walk her boyfriend doc to see her that way.
I just held her and told her I will always be there if she needed me

Has it ever occurred to you that those women at her office are jealous because she's married to a man who loves her unconditionally?

Wow that was really sweet. I have not heard anything that nice in a while.

My favorite thing is that all the women in the office know she owns the doctor and they cant say or do nothing over it. was he having affairs with any of the others before your wife came to work there? i mean it seems like she cut them to get to him and so now there all pissy **.

Unless he is lying he never had an affair. Many woman in the hospital fell over him but he ignored them all. She would do the opposite. Make him chase her around. Now she has him by the **. The woman hate her and talk behind her back and she loves it.

I am in bed next to my girlfriend thinking about how my hot wife got so f in front of me and how she teased me right before he came over for what seemed like hours. How her perfect Asian body shivered in two tremendous ** when he pounded her.
And how I was told by her to clean the house she did not touch since I left like she knew I would do it. Made me clean the toilets and scrub the floors on my knees. Thinking about how she can instantly take any man by just lifting her brow when they look at her. Even her married doctor gets nervous around her like a little kid. All the woman at her job knows how he falls over her and they hate her for it
This is what was inside the faithful wife of 20 years?

Yes, it was there all along, and you knew it, and you were afraid it would come out and end you, and end your marriage. Well, it came out. That wasn't your choice. But whether or not it ends your marriage? That IS Your choice. You can keep that from happening -- and you can remain with the woman of your dreams -- by simply making the right choice. Choose to go home and care for the woman you really love. What you are experiencing with your "landlord" is not love: it's convenience. Go home. Now. Go back to your wonderful, wonderful ** wife.

I saw her last night. I came over to pick up.my W-2 form. I stepped into the door and she came over with a glass of wine and gave me a big kiss. Her mouth was filled with wine that went into mine and most ran down my shirt. She took another swag and did it again. She knows that drives me wild. She bit my lip so hard . After a few minutes she pulled my upstairs and got on top.naked and rubbed all over me with her private part. After a few minutes her /my door rang . One of her gym guys came in. She got off me and told me to watch him ** her. He went crazy on her from behind .She came twice. Right before he did she took him in her mouth while he stood on the bed. When he came it shot all over me which she licked off. She told me to get her a towel and clean her off.
After she said to clean the whole house that I was a lazy f . I don't know why except I was sooooo crazy hard. I took 2 hours. When I was done she said to go home to my vanilla ** and think if I want to stay there or come back.
I went home but I feel so tormented and guilty

The answer is so obvious that perhaps you cannot see it. Your wife characterized your "landlord" just right: she is a vanilla **. You know where you belong. So, go there. And stay there.

I have masturbated frequently while fantasizing about your wife. And you have masturbated frequently while fantasizing about your wife. The difference is that you don't have to fantasize in order to get on her. I don't have a choice. Do you see the point here? You do, don't you? You need to stop fantasizing about that incredible woman you're already married to, and go get on her.

She wants to give you her sloppy seconds (or thirds, or fourths) and you want to receive them. It's a marriage made in heaven. What are you waiting for?

My wife sent me a email and a video. The video was her mouth in the gym guy. She pulled it off and he was wearing a condom. She put the condom in her mouth and sucked it clean. Only her Beautiful​ lips and hands were visable. Then she sent a second one saying that it was not her fault I had a small one and that she enjoyed other men more. She said after 20 years of being her wimp and letting her get her way it was her right to make her the center of my life. She told me I should come home to clean the filthy house massage her and to give her pleasure orally. I should take care of her needs. She will let me do this and stay in the basement and be there for her when she needs me. She did not say she missed me or wanted me as a husband or that she learned any boundaries. .
I didn't reply but some weak part of me wanted to run there to clean up and massage and make her feel good. And I watched her in the video over and over. So ** . Her lips covered as she.poured it down her throat.

Stop reisisting and just go there youknow you will eventualy anyway so why wait go to her and give her what she wants and what you need and she will share those love-filled condomms with you

Don't get it. you should of left at the begining.

Wasn't so easy to. I was and am still manipulated . She had a lot over me that I was worried might come out. Now I have more on her

But aren't you still in love with her? werent you still in love with her when you left? didnt you love her the wholetime she was humiliating and punishing anddegrading you? that's what I'm talking about. you should of never let her do that **. you should of beat her ** and then left out.

She's going to keep going after big **. And she's going to keep sharing their ** with you. Why? Because you love it.