My wife's boss

A woman like your wife will do whatever she can to get the money. That's all she cares about, other than her own sexual satisfaction. Be cautious. She may send one of her nasty girlfriends to "seduce" you into an act of adultery, and then she'll try to use that as fault in your divorce to get alimony for herself. Be very careful in dealing with your wife, but also with any of her friends, or any woman who comes on to you seemingly out of the blue, even if you don't know her or don't know she's friends with your ** of a wife. Just be on guard constantly. Constantly. This is a very dangerous time for you, my friend. Stay with the woman who invited you into her home and her life, and don't stray.

She has already wiped out my accounts and has everything. That is why she is with the doc. Besides his big **. She says the money and power turns her on. She will wipe him out to eventually.
It is super hard to resist but I know end the end she just wants to torment me and ruin my life with this woman. She could care less about me since I can no longer spoil her

I agree with the other woman. You will never be able to stay with a woman who doesn't cheat. You need someone who's a cheater and who rubs it in your face.

She could bring you back, simply with her own powers of seduction. But she has a more powerful weapon. She could tell you -- whether or not it is actually true -- that she will begin allowing your daughter to date one (or more) of these men . . . unless you surrender and return to your position as slave. She's going to win. You know it. Just imagine your daughter being pleasured by these same giants whose ** you've been eating, drinking and swallowing.

She would never. She is like a Pitt Bull with my daughter . My daughter is totally sheltered. By both of us. Both would. Kill to protect her.
She is trying to wear me down with. Text and emails. Just a few minutes ago she sent a pic of just her gorgeous Philadelphia lips

Filipino lips that is. And gorgeous.

My life has been almost.normal. saw my daughter most every night and didn't pick up my wife's calls to harass me.
Yesterday I went to the gym. She came in about 30 minutes later.
We ignored each other but she started a conversation with two gym rats.
About 15 minutes later they all left.
She came back in a while later with them and walked by me when I was on the ab machine and dropped a soaking tissue on my face. When I looked she put up two fingers and smiled and went to finish​ her workout.
I just left but boy was I turned on. As I walked out I turned and she just blew a kiss.

She obviously knows where all your buttons are and she obviously knows how to push them......you can be sure she will start pushing them harder and faster...........you'll be back home before you know it....and back in her filthy little web.............and she'll be doing more men.....not two at a time......but six or eight at a time....she knows what you want...and what you need........................

She is a total narcissist. She already moved on. Told her best friend (who told me) that I have a small ** and was just good to clean and be a slave to her. She said she loved to feed and wipe real men's ** on my wimp face. And to have me stick my tounge everywhere they were. Her friend actually said she felt sorry that my ** is so small. But I am not and the whole town may think I am. Now she wants to ** any money she can out of me. Her doc now pays her so well I will probably only have my child support to deal with. I am done with her. Even changing my gym

You're kidding yourself - but nobody else - if you think that your wife isn't already educating your daughter about life choices and lifestyle and sexuality. You can't save your daughter any more than you can save your wife from the sexual behaviors that all of a sudden seem to be a problem for you. Your daughter knows. SHE KNOWS. Go home. You aren't taking a stand. You're just embarrassing yourself.

I really do not think you have considered your latest move carefully enough. You surely must realize that your wife and her lover are not going to allow this to stand. You should be back at home. You are needed there. They both want you there. It's where you belong and you know that. You KNOW it. Wise up. Go home. Resume your place in the world. Resume your duties, your obligations, your calling. Do not be the husband that abandons his wife. Go home. GO HOME. If you don't......it's going to get REALLY bad for you. She and the doctor will see to that. Why fight the inevitable? Resistance is futile.

I was able to tolerate this in the beginning but it came to the point that it was many men and at least 3 or 4 days a week. She.wound up neglecting her daughter by going out so much with him or dragging me to the bar to pick some stud.
Now I will get my daughter a couple of days a week and force her to spend time raising her the right way till she is off to college

You know that won't work. You won't be able to live without your wife humiliating you with her love for other men.....in particular, her boss. You realize that you don't just need her, you need them both, and you need to be present in their relationship. Go home. Call and apologize right now, and tell her you're on your way home. Then write us here and let us know you've done it. Don't give up on her. You know--deep down--you can't.

I met a old girlfriend he other night that is divorced and have just moved in. My wife was really upset and threatened to publish pics and dirt on me if I don't come back. I told her I have more on her than she has on me. Staying with my friend now.

OMG IM SO HAPPY YOUR OUT OF THERE! That environment was so toxic for you and I hope you never go back. Of course she will put on the huge pressure for you to come home and take care of her while shes whoring BUT DONT DO IT! PLEASE JUST DONT EVER! I'm glad now that your getting good ** and dont have to beg for it or be humiliated for it! Please tell your new lady that she should NEVER allow you to leave her or ever even talk to your wife again! Have her call your wife and tell her that you are HER PROPERTY now and you wont be coming back home! That disaster of a marriage is finally over! FINALLY OVER! YEAH!!!!

I agree with the woman who wrote how good it was your out. you did the right thing, and this time it was the right thing for you. not for that tramp you married. i am sorry to sound mean about it but thats what she is and thats how selfish she is too.please dont go back. stay with the woman you have moved on with. she is the totalright one for you. if she reached out to you and lifted you from that mess at home she is the right one for you and cares about YOUnot about herself. to borrow a phrase from Marsellus Wallace (from Pulp Fiction), "when you gone, you stay gone, or you be gone." dont let that ** hurt you anymore. there are plenty of women like us (like the one your with now) who want you to be the man in the relationship. good luck to you.

I think the first two of these are all true but I also think your being away from your wife is what's best for your daughter. You probably can't explain to her today what her mother has been up to but one day you will have to and she will understand why you could no longer support her mother's behavior and she will respect you for it. Also your taking a stand will be an example for her so she doesn't follow her mother's sexual lead. It will hurt in the short run for you and for your daughter but long term its for the best. Good for you. And good luck to both you and your daughter. (But not your wife: I hope she regrets having driven you away.)

Ignore these responses above. You did the right thing. Actually, you did the ONLY thing that made sense, that preserves your sanity (and your reputation), and that preserves your daughter's safety. Well done!!!

Saturday night my daughter went for a overnight with a friend to see a collage so my wife went out with her crazy friend for ladies night. She came home about 1230 with some 35 year old she picked up. He walked in and looked at me and she said oh that's just my husband and dragged pulled him to the bedroom. This guy was only about 5 9 but was built like a total weight lifter . His arms were the size of my whole body. I was in shock since she always says they are not her type and she gets scared just looking at them.
They went right to it. I could hear everything. After an hour he walked right in to our kitchen naked and got a big glass of ice and went back. I could hear him grunting and my wife scream .
At about 3 she walked him to the front door. She kissed him in front of me. He pushed her down to his di__ and she made her do him again and tell him how beautiful his di was. Then pulled up his pants and left.
My wife just looked at me and said that is a real man. Before he left he did say something about her temporary tattoo thinking the initial was mine. She slept so well. Woke up early and came over to me and told me that she loves that I still take care of her and we have to pick up our daughter and go to brunch. Like this never happened...

So after she blew him as he was leaving did she come over to you and kiss you and share his cream with you like she had done with the gym guy? How did it taste? Did you love her for doing that for you? I really love how she does those things for you. She is so loving and giving and thoughtful.

Yes she always does that. Or wipes it on my face

God, so nasty. And God, how I love it!! Wow!

Did he have a huge ** like the other men she's ** recently?

She said it was not the biggest but very thick and like a rock and he had to put it in really slow.

.... i have had the boss i have now for almost a year....and i have a huge enormous gigantic crush on him and have been fantasizing about him sexually and nasty for almost the entire time we been working together......... i wish he would do this to me like the doctor is doing to your wife..............i would let him tattoo me with anything he wanted....and my husband could just go eat **......... I WANT MY BOSS!!

I wonder why you woman get so attracted to your bosses. My wife was the ultimate tease to him.

....ok so i tried flirting.....i tried to tease.........he wont get on me......i want him so bad.....but nothing has worked so far...were both married but i think he had other affairs....so i just want him to have one with me.........

Maybe he just is afraid too. It waiting for the right time.

My wife came home last night went to the shower and when she came out called me in. She handed me the phone and dropped her towel and said take a pic. On her back right above her ** was a tattoo of a heart with her docs initials. I was really upset. She started doing her nails( naked ) and told me to send the text to him. She said to say I want you to see this when you take me. But enjoy it because it is only temporary Love. See you Saturday. Btw for Xmas two years ago she had her name tattooed on my arm so people would know I belonged to her. Now even if it's temp she put his initials in a heart on her. She says the tattoo is temp but he has the pic forever. This way he can list for her whenever he looks at it

My wife did exactly the same thing with a guy she was dating on the side a couple years ago. They had been out drinking one night and decided she needed to be marked as his territory. They got a temp, but then as soon as it wore off, he took her back to the shop and got a permanent one: they both said they loved the art and the idea of her "being owned" by someone outside our marriage. He wasn't her boss at work, but he was super hung and she wanted him -- and everybody who saw it -- to know she was his property. Prepare yourself, friend. The next tattoo she comes home with won't ever wash off.

Where and is she still his?
My wife won't do it unless they get so serious he leaves his wife. She had another guy too and probably does not want to be marked permanent yet. She texted me today from work that he saw it in person at work in the hospital and took her to a private area and did her super fast and hard
Ugh

The tattoo is a quite large fiery heart that goes down and all the way over to her spine, with the other guy's initials in a diagonal in the middle. It's located on her back left shoulder and is partly visible in any sleeveless top, and fully visible anytime she wears a strapless or thin-strap dress, or a swimsuit. A lot of people see a tattoo but don't pay any attention to the fact that there are initials in it, but a lot of people ask whose they are, especially if they realize that they are not mine. She smiles and says something like it's "a very special person in my life", although her close friends know who it is because they've met the guy and hung out with them when she's been out with him. I understand your disgust with the way the doctor reacted to the tattoo at the hospital, ** her like a ** rag doll that way, and I know that hurt. My wife frequently gives me ugly details. When my wife got his tattoo ("marking his territory"), it brought their relationship to a new level, and it really fueled their ** lives because he mostly takes her from behind or in a **, so he's able to see her branding while he's ** her. Apparently it still fires them both up, her because she's carrying his mark, and him because he owns another man's wife: not just ** another man's wife but "actually owning the **" (his words). Yes, she is still his, and that doesn't seem likely to change anytime soon. I hope you're right about your wife's intentions on her marking from him, but I honestly don't have much hope that they won't make it permanent. Even if they don't replace the temp with initials again, he will probably take her and get a tattoo of his choosing, simply as a reminder of her ownership. Men like these two LOVE that kind of control and identification. I think you should prepare yourself.

Wow.your wife's is that visible. He definitely owns her if she says that to people. Does that get you excited?
I know my wife has been doing more than the doc but he definitely owns her and I am sure if he takes her she will get it. She calls him her protector now since everyone knows it at work but can't say anything .

Several years ago I had a really torrid affair with one of my married female employees. Or I guess I should say I "thought" it was torrid. I knew her husband, and my wife and I occasionally went to dinner with them. So when we started the affair, it was just generally hot between us, because of the office proximity and the couple friendship, and even more hot when the four of us were out together or at the same parties or functions or whatever, with nobody knowing what we were up to. We ** each other like animals, and I loved engaging in risky ** with her, knowing we might be discovered (we never were). But I never treated her -- or her husband -- like your wife's boss treats her, or like he treats you. I suppose I have to admit that I never had the ** to do that. Your wife's boss must really be a "boss", to behave like that, to come into your home while you're in it and ** your wife in your bed, and have you work on his ** shack while he's ** her there, and then getting you to clean up after them. I thought I was pretty hot ** with Denise, but this guy you're up against is way beyond me. I wish I'd had the nerve to humiliate Denise's husband that way while she and I were a couple. If I had, we might still be together. **!

Wow that is really playing neither fire. One mistake and you were both in big sh__. In a way worse than my situation. They are out in the open so they do not fear anything.
It's not the doc with the ** it's my wife. She is the one calling the shots. I wouldn't listen to anything any of her lovers say . It's her and her list for it

We both felt like we were right out on the edge, but that was obviously nothing compared to what you've been facing and dealing with. Wow! I just can't get over it, really. Every time I drop by this page, I'm amazed by how this has evolved!

My life is a roller coaster. You would never know how she is now by looking at her.
She talks to her family when they come over like she is a Stafford Wife

Honestly, that part of her behavior is as ** as any other: it's that she can pretend to be a nice, sweet, demure wife, and yet be out ** strangers like the filthiest ** imaginable. This new young guy you mentioned sounds to me like he might actually be serious competition for the doctor, assuming he has money. He certainly knows how to push her nasty buttons, so the only question is, can he bankroll the partying and the gifts and the appearance she wants and needs. I think the young guy is going to make a run. I know she WANTS him to make a run.

Is she the dominant in all of her relationships with men, or is that only with you? Is she submissive with the others, or does she play the super-aggressive "**"?

Yes. She likes to think she is submissive in bed but just commands them on every move to satisfy her

I'm a woman who believes herself to be strong and in control, but I can't hold a candle to your wife. I want to be her!

I think you probably are . You can relate to her so well

How much do both your and her families and friends know about her many infidelities and the "arrangement" that exists between the two of you? Do she and her lovers ever get seen together in public by people you know? Do they come back and tell you she's cheating? Or that she's giving handjobs (and more) in public? How does that make you feel? Is she blatant and purposeful about all the adultery? Is she intentionally humiliating you in that way? Is she that mean?

Our families do not know. She has two friends that know.they cheat on their husbands without their husbands knowing.
One of her friends is more promiscuous than my wife. She sends my wife pics of mend privates all the time and they rate the size. I do think that more than they know but nobody ever said anything to me.
I do get humiliated when she does this many times in front of me. She does not consider it adultery. She calls it a one sided open marriage. She says life is short and she loves the physical pleasure and excitement and getting these hot men so turned on

My wife came home last night and had me do her toe nails ,wash and blow out her hair. Her hair is long and thick so it takes a while. She got up this morning and dressed for work. Her scrubs are tight around her. She wore Sandler and spent forever with her makeup. On the way out to her doctors office she told me to pick up my daughter from her practice tonight and she will be home late. I know even though he is not her hottest lover she is attracted to him the most he spoils her and she loves that all the staff at the hospital and his office knows she has him but they can't say anything. She was so hot leaving the house. I was so jealous when she turned and said I will be home late, knowing he will be in her.

God, that is so unbelievably ** and hot!!!! I love the way she torments you and the other men she's ** regularly! Dropping those little hints and suggestive images! Mostly I love the way she goes out, knowing she's going to get laid, and making you aware of it (in addition to the **-size issues she's always referring to)!!!!! Is she directly aware of how aroused that makes you?

She definitely knows how aroused I get. She loves to tease me and get me frustrated. When she tells me to go down on her she first makes me pull down my pants and tells me of her best **. She watches me get hard and then let's me please her. Sometimes in the middle she will remind me I am there to make her feel good and it's all about her. I get crazy hard when she says that.

You said that her boss/doctor is "not her hottest lover" so it made me curious about who IS her hottest lover. Is it the gym guy, or the sushi bar pick-up, or has she now started dating a fourth man outside of her marriage to you? Who does she say is the best **, or which one does she want the most? Is that because the "hottest" also has the biggest meat?

It's definitely the gym guy. When she looks at him it's like she gets drunk with passion and ecstasy. When he pounded her she couldn't keep.her hands off his body. I don't think she could be pried off him.
He is tall silver hair and muscular but thin. And treats her like his **. Does not really talk much. Just does her. She told me it's the hardest ** ever inside her. She said I will never even he felt inside her after that.
But the doc is still one. He FS her good and spoils her. She actually talks to me more than ever. She loves talking about them and reminds me it's my fault for not doing her good like I should have.

Btw. This is all still so surreal to me. I love her more than ever but I know that I shouldn't

All women cheat. The only ones we think AREN'T cheating are the ones who lie about it really well.

My wife doesn't cheat.

Maybe