Concerned about girlfriend's comment

Last weekend my gf and I went to a dinner party at the home of my boss. My boss (Nick) is gay, and his partner (Ray) also works at our company. There were a few others invited, mostly women in our department.

One of the women there was Tina. She is a bit chubby, but looks quite young and pretty. There have been rumors around the office that Tina and Ray have been having a thing on the side, and that Ray is likely bisexual. The way they act and respond on each other's facebook pages is a little intimate and weird--more like stuff you would write to a bf or gf, than a friend. There is also an age gap between the two: Ray is 51 and Tina is 26. I'm not sure if my boss Nick realizes that all of us think that Ray is cheating on him with Tina, but no one brings it up, because it is simply private stuff.

I told my gf about all of the rumors before we went to their place for dinner, and she said, "Cool, if it's true, maybe we can all have a bisexual ** afterwards." I was like, "Huh?" I was stunned by what she said, as I couldn't tell if she was being serious or not. I was speechless. My gf and I have only been dating for about a month, so we're still feeling each other out. I'm still concerned that she was being serious, and that being in an ** is something that would be okay with me. I haven't talked to her about it, since a few days have lapsed, but I'm still distressed.

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