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Trying to turn son straight again
My wife and I are divorced, we live in different states, and our nineteen year old son lives with her. I was talking to her on the phone recently and she said that our son says he's gay. I told her to put him on the phone, and he confirmed it. I'm not sure how to handle this disturbing news. I think he's likely acting out because I've been away and he lacks a strong male figure in his life.
I don't have a problem with gay people. I have friends who are gay. It's just that I don't want my only son to be gay. He really needs to be pursuing the bearded clam. I'm thinking of inviting him out to my place and hooking him up with some older women friends that I know who are kinda slutty. I've already talked to one, and she said she'd be willing to help. I've had her before, and I think she is good enough that she might be able to turn him straight. Heck, it might even be good to do a tag team on her, so I can show him how it's supposed to be done.
I love my son, and I'm willing to do anything to get him over this issue he is having. With a little bit of luck, I can get him back to optimal health again.
Being gay isn't a psychological, emotional and physical disease. Anyone that claims otherwise, is prejudice and ignorant against gay people. And most likely afraid of what they don't understand and what they deem as different, to what they've been brought upto believe.
If you love your son, you wouldn't discredit his revelation of being gay, you would accept he is and support him.
In some ignorant and narrow minded communities, he may face prejudice, bullying and harassment for his sexuality, especially from strangers. So as his father, his role model and someone who supposedly loves him unconditionally - he shouldn't be receiving this in his personal life. Learn to either accept this part of your son and support him unconditionally, because if you don't, you may lose the relationship you have with your son. Being gay doesn't define a person's identity, it's only a part of a person's identity. Just like your heterosexuality is a part of your identity, it isn't your identity.
Don't you believe a person is more than their sexuality? Just like a person is more than their race, ethnicity, religion, culture and so forth. A person has so many identities, don't let ignorance blind you, rise above it and open your mind/heart more. Don't base your ignorance, on what you don't understand. Learn to understand. Your son needs your love, acceptance, understanding and support - nothing less and nothing more.
You don't know how long your son has felt gay for and you don't know what inner turmoil he's experienced.
Good luck
It's clear you are factually mentally disabled in a complete fashion ; horrifically afflicted with the mental disease of liberalism.
It's obvious, you're a prejudiced, ignorant and degenerative individual from America. I'm not surprised at all :)
Lol degenerate moron!
Well said. You obviously aren't an American or a Muslim.
Being gay is not a mental health issue, heck, it's not a health issue at all! I think that, if you truly want what's best for your son, then you should ask your gay friends if it is the right thing to do and if they think that it is healthy for your kid. Personally, I think that it is a bad idea because you may disturb your son heavily if you try and get him to have ** with a woman that he isn't attracted to at all. Also, you seem to have a bit of contradiction of yourself. You say that you don't have a problem with gay people, but you say that your son coming out is 'disturbing news' and that he isn't of 'optimal health', that you think that this is an 'issue' that you can work through. Coming out is really tough and you leave yourself vulnerable to shaming and people who tell them that 'it's just a phase'. Those sorts of things can really hurt a kid and you may heavily damage your relationship with your son if you go through with what you are planning. I know that you love your son, I know the feeling of having a gay kid, and the best thing that you can do (take it from me who has been through this) is not interfere. It might just be a phase, it might not, who knows? The important thing is to tell your son that you'll support him through anything, don't try and change him. If he is going to change, he'll do it in his own time. Once again, please talk to your gay friends about this, it has the potential of going seriously wrong.
Being gay is a mental health issue... all these single moms man hating is spreading into their youth. TV is normalizing this disorder as if it's healthy and natural.. Especially the transgender deranged..
If I make myself up to look like Brad Pitt or Leonardo DiCaprio and walk around pretending I'm them... That's a facade or persona you act out.. a cosplay for the new terms..
Now if you BELIEVE you're "Brad Pitt or Leonardo DiCaprio" that is a mental illness..
Thinking/believing you're the opposing gender or ** is the same relation..
Look down.. do you have a ** or a **?
Man or Woman(excusing those with body dysmorphia)..
If you think or belive otherwise, it stems from a mental aspect.. Most are either molested or sexually abused which causes mental trauma at a young age.
Not saying the father abused him.. single parenting and media pressure to sexualize the young is destroying our youth... Making it a fad..
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Prejudice!
**' cumdunt
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What a ** idiot. A mentally ill one at that
Well said x